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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 01, 2010 11:41 pm 
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Any of you guys ever run into a set where you go a bit too far with negs and the girl ended up crying? I think I must have hit a nerve like she was bulimic or something cos I was just joking about her weight :?


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you can work that bro. once they start crying they get vulnerable and they maybe reaching out for daddy.

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I think Mystery said it best but don't quote me on it.

Neg the 10's like hell.

Neg the 8's a little.

Neg the 6's and 7's one time.

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I think Mystery said it best but don't quote me on it.

Neg the 10's like hell.

Neg the 8's a little.

Neg the 6's and 7's one time.
pretty true for the most part..you might have a girl who is into but when u neg her too much she thinks your not interested..i think push-pulls work the best! but ive negger a 7 a lil too much an prob pushed her away

remember 10's get hit on a daily basis u really seperate yourself when u throw a neg at a hb10 but not too cocky or mean then it losses all power

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Any of you guys ever run into a set where you go a bit too far with negs and the girl ended up crying? I think I must have hit a nerve like she was bulimic or something cos I was just joking about her weight :?
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Oh my God, who negs a GIRL about her WEIGHT? Are you out of your freaking mind?

Let me explain what a neg really is:
An innocent statement about something that nature has caused to happen on the woman - and you just happen to point the fact out.

It's NOT joking about her weight
It's NOT making fun of her

Example: Eww, you just spit on me.

You didn't make a joke. You didn't make fun of her. You simply stated the fact that she accidently spat at you. It was something NATURE caused her to do and not her (purposely).

Want another example?
Your hands are kinda sweaty. Are you nervous around me or something?

Examples of MISUNDERSTOOD "NEGS":

* Haha you look a bit chubby today
* Your face has a funny shape
* That outfit makes you seem lika such a slut!

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Boet. Or brother as non-South Africans say it.

Never. No matter how thin/fat/horizontally or vertically challenged a women. Never. Never neg about weight. It is blasphemous to any women in all sizes and you are doing damage to your rapport.

There was this belle that played a game of cat and mouse with me for several months before I even kissed her so I had to pull some hard inference en-route.

Two negs I said to her, if you can call them negs, which I can remember off-hand.

After hugging her hello, I said "You smell. ............." Action of pretending to pin-point smell

She: "Smell like what?"

Pausing and pretending to sniff the air to try and figure out the smell..

Me: "Like toilet spray"

She: Opens hand-bag and scramble for perfume, sprays herself then hugs me again.

Me: "Thats better."


Second one:

Me: "Hello"

Her: "Hello."

Me: "Your hair looks nice tonight. You must of spent a fucking long time doing it."

Her friend starts laughing.

She jokingly hits me on my arm saying "You always tune me" (tune slang for chirp or give shit to)

Me: "What it was a compliment."

For reference she is a local 10. Also for reference after being with her several times I wanted her to be my gf. To this day she is not.

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Seriously...


Actually, I cant come up with any words to explain what I think of this entire thread...

Seriously...

I think that you should stop negging altogether for like a month or even the rest of your life. If you cant handle it you shouldnt do it. Learn to game without negs instead until you understand what it is about.

El Guapo. Tasteless.

Is this what the PUA community has come to?

People making others cry and think that it is a good thing???

This is not (NOT!!!) the way of the superior male. This is not what pickup is about!

Little Panda, good!

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Ezo.

I think neg'gin (Please accept that as a plural for neg), forms part of one's game.

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Yes, negs can form part of your game... But believe me, if you dont know what you are doing they do more harm than good.

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I had the same problem, I went to the asshole side of the scale with negs so I just break raport in other ways now.


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