I'm new to this forum so I hope I'm posting this topic in the right place. I need advice on how to regain the attention of a certain woman I'm highly interested in, in spite of her being so out of reach. Let me preface this by saying I got as far as I did using only the little knowledge my PUA roommate had yet shared with me. Also, I'm going to keep this very simple so you may inquire about any of the specifics yourself.

So I meet this gorgeous older college girl (23 to my 18 years) at some laidback little concert venue. She clearly portrays herself as an admirer of sophistication and maturity. I suppose I gradually DHV'd by carrying the "classy" demeanor well enough. I made her smile alot, I kept great conversation, and there was kino everywhere. I easily convinced her to buy me drinks and she even insisted she take me to her favorite bar. She even took me to her place before that, though with her group of gay (truly) co-workers which was too public for my skills. It wasn't until we headed to the bars that things started going downhill. During the walk to, she began the first of several long phone calls (i didn't eavesdrop enough to tell you anything about them.) She went from the phonecalls to talking to co-workers (because she worked at one of the bars). Maybe I could of slipped into their conversations but I didn't. I covered by making seemingly interesting conversation with randoms at the bar, all responding by treating me to drinks. The night ended abruptly when this girl's boss asked all non-employees to leave the bar, but clearly meaning me in particular, and seemingly so that he could speak privately with her. I had not spoken to her in nearly an hour, she gave me a small kiss goodbye (in front of the staff). I never exchanged numbers with her, though I did with her gay friends (go figure) who all insisted on doing so because they enjoyed me so much. Thats pretty much it but there are a few more things.

A large IOI: I overheard her loudly discussing the ethics of sleeping with me that night.

She recommended I work at that one restaurant with her, though her manager her didn't even seem to want to entertain the idea.

I know I started strong, but I also know I may have dropped the ball (I suppose failure to isolate). Regardless, she was so damned Interesting that I really want to pursue this. How can I recover? Once again, ask for any info I may have left out.

sounds like your a kl guy man. i'm gonna be honest, is she really really REALLY worth it??

you met her at a gig, one of perhaps several hundred (may thousand?) girls. you have confidence, use it again. go out, find someone else. but this time, don't go to HER choice of venue, espicially seeing as she worked there.

This shows that she's leading...going to place with all her friends (perhaps showing that you weren't entertaining enough? or that she wanted to show you off, fair play bro) and so, next time, choose your venue, your bar.

and also, even if there are a hundred other ppl around, ask for her number there and then. She will give it as she doesn't want to look like a slut who does one night stands in front of her friends.