So I'm goin on a date Friday night with this girl in one of my classes. I've run some stuff on her for a little while, and this is the first time we're goin out together. We're goin to eat dinner together because I live in Jersey and there's nothing at all to do ever, anyway....I can't come up with ways to k-close, or to just hook up with her, maybe take it further or some shit.

Not sure how I should initiate, or where, like before we eat or after. I understand what to do if she denies it, which won't happen but you never know. Things could get awkward. I'm pretty sure I should pay, or joke around like she should pay idk, thats why I'm asking.

Basically, I just need advice on the whole thing.
Thanks

Initiate some kino, some jokes too whilst eating, put a smile on her face. You lead the date, keep conversation flowing, give her a chance to speak, that way you don't seem too needy.

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Taken, I'm pretty good at keeping conversations rolling, but I want to k-close through the night. And how would I do that if we're at dinner?

Eat dinner, then bounce her to a better location.

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Yep, good idea, some women are paranoid so k closing for a first time at a restaurant probably isn't a great idea. Runa trust test, then if you like bein cocky/funny" say, I've been looking at your lips all night, come here a sec" and move in.

Not great at K close routines myself as I usually just go in for it.

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If you take her to dinner, make dinner a "snack" meaning dont make dinner the date! girls go out to dinner... allll the time. your gonna eat.. shell probably be covering her mouth as she speaks (for fear of spitting on u haha) and who wants to talk with food in their mouth any way. part of being the Alpha is "creating" in an area where there is virtually nothing to do or going on SOMETHING to do... annnd in Jersey .... i find it hard to believe that theres nothing going on. as long as you are taking her on "your adventure" meaning you are doing things that create "your life together" the memories shell be able to fantasize about after the date and while shes does the post date recap with her girlies. Doing spontaneous events that are SHORT and SWEET, especially on the first date (leave her wanting more) Ice blocking, Shooting, Lazer Tag, (great for having fun bets and wagers, and flirtatious competition) getting a huge group together to play a giant game of freeze tag, launching fireworks, Flying Kites, those types of dates are things they NEVER forget, even when they are married to someone else.
in my game i do NOT sleep with her the first night. Though i can and that will for sure hook her to me, Girls Find it Incredibly attractive when i guy demonstrates self control, and that ur interested in HER with sex being the cherry. they want nothing more then to please u the next time. Trust is escalated and so is attraction, i get ladies CRYING to be my girl friend because i apply this. (this is assuming your not going after a slut) again thats HOW I play, its personal.
also do things that are slightly dangerous, something that if a cop caught you for doing u could get a warning for. this is good if youve already acquired a high value. this puts her in a flirtatious situation where she has to depend on u and it gets her adventurous side open.

Also, Depending on the mood or attitude you play joking for her to pay is great, i always have them open my door and joke to pay right up to the last second, then pull and end up paying myself joking with her that she foots it next time (establishing the fact that there WILL be a 2nd date)

Girls Want to kiss the valued, If u demonstrated value and have shown her Y she wants to kiss you, she will kiss you. kiss closes are EASY as long as they value u, DO NOT telegraph any interest in kissing her tho. youre just 2 classy people enjoying each other. the kiss is cherry. if you feel the vibe at the end, just go into it like its just normal. "im kissing you goodbye, thats all" mind set. hope that makes sense. its what works for me, i never have to test close, i KNOW they want to kiss me by the middle of the date because my value is already through the roof. if for some reason its not, then its my fault and i dont even try i save it for later.

always,
ApStyle

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