Sup, I'm new to the site so I hope I'm posting this in the right section, but um here goes...There's this girl that I see every morning in the parking lot at work/school (I work at my school) and sometimes in the evening when I leave. we've made eye contact a few times. Not deep passionate "I want you inside of me" eye contact, but just regular eye contact. I want to talk to her, buuuuuuut, I don't want to hop out of my car too fast like an idiot and look desperate. I wouldn't have a problem saying hey to her, but in the past, all I've ever done was say hey and that hasn't gotten me anywhere. Soooo, could someone give some advice on getting out of the car smoothly and not looking like an idiot, and tips on what to say...

Hey dude, im also new to this forum but I hear what you're saying.

Opinion openers are generally the best way to pick up women so you should open her with this if you haven't really talked to her before. Use school questions maybe if she knows you work there so it seems not out of the blue.

You: "Hey can I get your opinion on something, but I only have a few minutes before I start work" (false time constraint crucial)

Her: "yea sure blah blah blah"

You: "Do you think kids should be punished for bad grades or rewarded for good ones?"
or "Do you think schools should punish kids for what they say/do on Facebook?"
etc etc

or if you want to keep it out of work then try the jealous girlfriend opener:

(once again false time constraint etc) "My friend has been going out with this girl for 3 months but he's still friends with his ex girlfriend, how do you feel about this?"

There you go, its a tough one but this is what I think anyway

from what i can see your to emotionaly attached, beacuse if you fail on her your going to be crushed, either get it done and over with and see what hapens with a few routines you can learn, or just forget about her, learn how to pick up girls properly, realise that there are shit loads of other women and infact this one isnt special in anyway or form. but you decide what you think is best but id say just get out and forget about her because it sounds like your just gonna belly flop infront of her and hurt your self

Ya know, I almost gave up, but Friday I was getting out of the car and i didn't even notice that she was getting out of her car too. She asked me about the shirt I was wearing. So we talked until we reached the building wear her class was and I told her I had to go to work and that started another conversation and I ended up getting her number. I haven't called her yet though because I don't wanna seem too desperate.

Call after 3 days. That's usually a good rule of thumb.

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i would recommend a Sinn style day game opener.

Social Question - Do you know when the xyz event is happening? or something that is normal.
Tease - omg ur a total nerd arent you (if she knows the answer) or wow where is your school spirit? if she doesnt
Opinion opener - Hey your a girl... I was just on the phone to my friend and he is having this issue. We need a girls opinion...
Observational transition - thats an interesting xyz whats the deal with that?
Qualify

etc

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