i met a new girl at a club so as the night prog she asked me for my facebook and stuff and she club hopped. i didnt follow as i had friends with me.
then the next day we both hit the clubs again, let's name the girl Z. so i was with Z at this club where her friend was having an event. and i left early telling her i had to be at another club as it was my friend's birthday. so i left. when i reached the other club i was given and invite and a +1. so i texted her to see if she wanted to come. 30mins later she came. and i drove her home after that. i havent k close her. just kino.
on sat i had an event at another club and i invited her. she wanted a +5 but i told her i could only sign her in. so that day i was dead drunk. and i told her some stuff like, if only i knew u earlier, i would have dated you much much earlier. its a pity i have to fly for 2 weeks. so i guess i'll see u in 2 weeks then.
then i sent her home. on the way home, she asked me questions like how many ex-s i had, how long i woo-ed them.

ytd just before i boarded my plane she texted me, so i called her back. then there was some messing around and i told her, "pls dont miss me, cos i wont." she replied " haha, maybe it'll come the other way around of you missing me more"
At that time she was in the toilet and it was rather bad timing, and she said she'll call back but i have to turn my phone off.
when i landed i received a miss call from Z.


Is it interested? or is she just playing along?


i know its a long story, i tried to cut down as much as i could.

from what I understand she is really into you. If she asks you inane questions like how many ex's you've had etc she is testing you and thus wanting to get with you. I think you should just go caveman on her when you see her next. Pretend like you can't control yourself because you have missed her so much.

peace

mckinnon, thanks for the tip, can u define caveman properly? there are different ways people understand it.

is there a chance that i might screw up if i go caveman?

I would not do it like that, you need to show interest, but you dont need to 'lose control because you missed her so much'. You're always in control.

When you get back you should just text her;
'Gues who is back? And what kind of mischief have you've been in while I was away?'

See how it rolls from there and maby end up, setting a date.

I hope you went on that trip, leaving a tremendous amount of attraction with her, that would make everything alot easyer. So she tought about you in those 2 weeks

Otherwise you'll have to DHV again, generate attraction bla bla.

While you are in bed with her you can go caveman bro!

hmm... caveman meaning? so i'll have to show that i missed her a little?

By caveman he ment, no thinking just beeing a mindless sex creature full of insinct, telling her you want her, you want her now.

And I ment you can go and fuck her like a wild dog while she is in bed with you.


Anyway, just by texting her after your trip, you show interest and you are showing that you tought about her.

Thats enough.

You don't wanna tell her you missed her, its too much, she is not your girlfriend.

Just text her as soon as you come back, and see what response you get. And move on from there.

I would text the thing I mentioned, but it''s all up to you!

sounds nice.. maybe i'll head down to teh beach grab some sand and give it to her. and tell her, since u can't come with me, i bought ______ back to you.
how does it sound?

Yeah sounds good, it's important that it doesn't look like your giving her a gift, but that you are making a joke.

I took some sand for my home grown cactus to grow in, but since you couldn't enjoy the feeling of this beloved sand sliding between your toes I tought I'd might aswel give it to you. So you can, with a little imagination, still feel like your at (place).
I hope you have a good fantasy tough because more I don't have.

It's important that you don't show too much interest into her, because your still only at the beginning of a (possible) relationship.
Be sure you wait for signs of interest from her towards you.

Go on from there bro!

what kind of ioi shld i look out for? she has rather lots of guy friends. and she replies them really quickly except me. i hate this part.

I tought about it, you shouldn't bring anything for her. It conveys to much interest.
Unless you feel like you can get away with it (funnywise)

All these guyfriends are friendzoned, so there is no reason to not respond to them. Just like you respond to your friends quickly.

She seems interested in you bro, just let her know your back from your trip somewhere in the day you came back.

If she response then that is an IOI by itself.

Just dont lick her arse and cry when she doesn't answers your call/text immediatly, because that is a attraction killer.

haha! thanks bro, i told her 2 weeks, b ut in actual fact its about 9 days. so i shldnt get her anything? i was thinking of getting some lolllipops. those huge kind where they dont sell it from my country.

Imagine, you were that girl.

There is this guy who you find cute & attractive. You don't know him realy well yet but he seems nice and all.

But then he start buying you gifts out of the blue.

It's weird. She will then have a present laying on her desk in her room, from you. With no value.


What you CAN do, is buy a lolipop for yourself and use it as an exuse for her to come ovcer at (place) to share it, because it's too much for you.

You want to prevent, that you buy something specificly for her.

You buy something for yourself, and you tought about her. And you use whatever thing you bought to get in contact with her again.

If you BUY HER a present is so much different, then when you just bought something and TOUGHT ABOUT HER, referring to that object.

Once again the fact that you think about her when you got back from your trip is showing enough interest in the stage.

Later when you kissed her an have more comfort and fool around you can do that stuff you want to do more.


But still, you overview the situation the best.
So think, are YOU the one just wanting to show your affection & interest in her?

And do you know (100%) if she will realy appreciate you giving such a thing.
Cause you dont wanna gamble. You don't wanna come off as desperate.

hm.. kind true. buy something for myself and ask her if she wants to help me with it. sounds cool enough. i need to double my date. haha! eastern girls are one tough cookie!

i just found out that she was dating another guy even before she met me. is it unethical to date her now? i'm kinda confused..

No, it's not. If she wants to date you, then it's her decision. You shouldn't be worried about it.
Maybe she only dates him to get rid of him... you never know. But for sure: it's not her boyfriend, so there's no obstacle. Now go get her.

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