this weekend i have been hanging out with 2 of my friends from school we went to the mall twice and they are not necessarily AMOG's but they are both naturals at the game.

My dillemma is i see plenty of sets but im scared to get embarassed in front of them i kno the only way to get better is to practice but idk lol.

and if we engage in a set should i try to out AMOG them?

plzz give any kind of suggestions thanks

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No, don't try to AMOG them.

Instead, get their help.

Learning from people who know their deal is one of the best things to do.

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I know how is man my old roommate is a natural. I went out the other night and he got approached by the hottest girl in the bar. Too bad hes got a serious girlfriend now. But learn from them.... watch there body language.. watch what they do... ask them questions.... if there good friends im sure they will help you out.

yea man... observe...


but when u are out in sets with them feed off their energy... but dont be afraid to speak man... practice and if you blotch something up since they are naturals they will recover for u...


of course they will tease u about it later, but thats what friends are for.

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first of all, you have to talk, that's just the base of it, don't even get embaressed. if you have something intresting to say, just say it.

2. If you have a problem with your friends interupting you (i had this problem) just speak louder, or interrupt them.

3. DON'T SARGE WITH THEM, it sets you as the person with the lowest value in the group.

LUCKY... i got respect for you, but y do u think we should tlak louder in these situations...


a PUA is relaxed, lays back, speaks naturally, acts naturally, if we raise our voice in a crowd/group/set it decreases our value... i read that in the game....

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that is a good point... and it is true.

usually however, when i get in these situations, i get all quiet and lose my ground, so i'm just telling myself to raise my voice, so i am at normal voice level.

and yes, raising your voice above level is a DLV, and just plane annoying, lol.

alright... cool i was just making sure i had it right and didnt have something mixed up

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no problem dude.

Listen my friend. Why think of them as your competition. Aren't they your friends. Have them by your side to wing you, and observe them. Learn from then if you have to. Get your self motivated. Without practice, experience and learning from your mistakes you are not going to be succesful.

what some of you guys overlooked is he is saying they are "naturals" they may not know our methodology.

If they truly are AMOGs then they are a block, buddies or not if they arent on your game plan you have 2 options

DLV and Disarm

or Sarge with other cats who know how to wing.

If they have been your buddies for awhile they may always think of you as the same AFC you have been. Practice, observe. I agree totally to observe them and how they work. Yet I stil say if they are true AMOGs they are an obstacle till they are on the same page as you.

Style and Mystery describes wings as friends who are there to help you DHV, and then later you can do the same favor for them, they arent there to interfere with your set.

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You could always throw out the "Hey don't be rude the party is over here"
I think in that situation though a nice magic trick would do. well. Get there by "hey let me show you guys something crazy!" ( or whatever you want to say)

You can always break away and sarge alone. Then you have a real TC instead of an FTC.

Observe what they do, make it yours, improve it, evolve further.

If you have 2 Alpha male friends you are a very lucky guy, many guys here would envy you. Now it is up to you to notice how your friends act, how they vieuw the world and how they pick up girls. Try to incorporate this into your game. Improve the things that are less perfect. Over time you will become a more complete person.

I think their alphaness would probably push you to be better as long as youre not a complete sucker...but youll probably never feel as good as them, you wont want to feel like the underdog forever, will you? still, it will probably be a good experience for you!