Intention of this post: Venting, some advice would help, and just documenting my experience...


So S is back in town... She left for Australia 6 months ago, hot, slightly overweight... only to return 10kgs lighter , SMOKING hot and dating another guy who's still back in OZ

Now this douche somehow managed to weasel into this situation:

His her boss and she is his PA, they live together, were first roomys but now they're a couple. HE is crazy about her and basically offered her the high paying job in OZ to get into her pants.

Now shes in this relationshit, claims to love the guy, but on our first "date" the other night we spend the entire weekend hanging out and shagging like rabbits... she came like 20 times, somethings she doesnt do with him...

I used the ol boyfriend destroyer, something i dont like doing, but this time i made an exception cos she was mine first! Worked a treat. Then some NLP and before you knew it she was rubbing her leg against mine, touching... then i suggested we head to my shag pad and boom... game over.

The only problem is that she says she loves me, I love her, but she wont stay in CT. I said "ok, how about we both move over to OZ?" She didnt answer but i gather she doesnt wanna give up her suger daddy in OZ just yet.

So yes, the boyfriend destroyer worked but i think its time to walk away. First i'm gonna shag the shit out of her, but when the plane leaves this time, its over for good.

Lessons learnt: NLP AND BF destroyers work. Woman are mostly contract whores, and love exists and feels pretty awesome

NEXT!

Update time:

So its been a fantastic few months. We officially dated for 2 months. The Relationship was totally messed up though. None of her family and friends new about me but all of my friends and family knew. Her "boyfriend" who she actaully can't stand calls her every day, deposits money into her account (which she then spends on me) and basically she tells him she loves him although she doesn't.

My game plan was to make her want to stay. I boyfriend destroyed the shit out of this guy over 2 months...but it wasn't enough. Shes not even a contract whore...shes just a plain sex for money Ho.

Now shes 700 odd KM away, with him, They're holidaying here first before they go back to OZ. I told her I dont ever want to see her again, the problem is I developed one-itis for this girl, and now I'm trying hard not to call her or establish contact.

I asked her to stay, she said that she doesn't want to struggle with me, the man she says she loves, instead she wants to live a comfortable life, save for the next 2 years and she'll come back then. I said its not good enough.

SIGH... chicks are fucked up man...

Any comments, anyone that can relate please feel free to comment.

That pretty much sums it up right there,

I know how you feel and it's just bullshit. All I have to say is you handled your shit properly and I respect you for it. Don't call her or contact her. In fact cut her off for good. Don't be the guy that will let her choose to put you on the back burner and come back when she see's fit. Sure you could wait two years and get back with her but that is just pathetic. Forget it, she isn't screwed up at all she is just a woman. This isn't surprising woman behavior to me. She finds a beta provider that is showering her with cash, has sex with you to satisfy her real sexual urges and then keeps her beta in check so that she can benefit financially.

The only thing that's fucked up about this is that it surprises you.

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Ahead of my time, like I live my whole life backwards.

Hey Bro

tx for the slap! needed that. I can't believe I didnt really see it. Typical Lover vs Provider scenario. Still hurts just thinking about her and its tough not calling her, but I won't. Im much stronger than this! realise it now. Been 5 days I think and I'm still alive.

Pity, she lost out, we coulda been good together, now she'll never know and the next girl whos lucky enough to bag me will have to benefit!. Plus she wasn't anywhere NEAR my perfect girl...


Later brothers!

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