I've been talking to this girl alot in my music class. We even went to this concert last week that was mandatory for the class together, and we're going to one this Sunday as well. The only thing is there's only a couple of weeks of school left.

I plan to try and take her out to eat after the concert this Sunday, and then maybe try to set something else up between me and her that's not school related. But how do I not end up just being some guy she just says hi to next semester when I see her around campus.

And another thing I've got her number but I've only called her like once and text her a couple of times. Should I be trying to talk to her on the phone more or should I just save that for when this class is over.

THANKS

anybody?

Well exactly how in to you is she? I think you need to give us some more info about the situation before we can judge it. When you text her does she text right back and does she try and keep the convo going by asking questions at the ends of her texts or does she just answer all of your questions?

actually she does ask questions to keep the convo going when we text usually, but sometimes she might not text back

we're supposed to be doing something tomorrow

How did you get on with her when you met up mate?

Also I don't think it's a good idea to focus all of your efforts on this one girl. Even if you don't feel like it you should open up your options. It will help you in two ways. 1) You'll have more a of chance at some action because they'll be more girls around you. 2) If she finds out you're not going to be around forever and that you're a guy that other girls want her want for you will increase a little as long as you dont do it in a needy way to impress her.

hey I've been talking to other girls I'm just interested in this one the most. But I felt like things went well so I asked her if she wanted to go eat on Tuesday and then she said yeah but as long as she didn't have to work. (this was probably an excuse bcuz she told me she doesn't work on Tuesdays usually) So on Tuesday when we were talking in class she brought up that she had to get her car fixed. So I didn't even bring up doing something.

but I called her that night got no reply and I sent her a text and got no reply, so she's been giving me the cold shoulder all of a sudden

cut it off

agreed. there's many fish in the sea don't get tunnel vision

dude not trying to be an ass, but wtf were u thinking call then texting... u might as well left a message saying I am extremely sprung... either way do like other have said cut it off... I would advise you to read more material and practice...

thing is:

have you got a good reason to call her?

if not then she'll see it as you showing interest in her. which would be cool IF she's already interested in you.

If you're trying to create attraction, don't call her more than it's necessary and whenever you do, be interesting (without being a try-hard)

good luck man!