Let me explain my situation. I just got out of a 2 year relationship, I became friends with her friends. Never had my own group of friends, single or not, All my gf's were by luck,(which wern't many), and i've always been brought down by my family.
All I want is help on where to start. I feel like a newborn getting in the social world since everything. I still talk to my ex cause she's my only friend at the moment, but I hate talking to her cause it brings up memories and she just isn't a real friend I feel. I've always been into activities that involve just me,(guitar, art, etc.)
I just want to be able to be social. I just want help on myself, and my depression.
Every conversation I start goes sour right away. I'm trying the newbie challenge, but once I get rejected by everyone, I can't help but to go home a sad man.
Right now I don't want to go out and meet people, but I am trying everyday, so I am making the effort.
All I want is some pointers on how everyone started that had little to no confidence to their name and became who they wanted to be in life. My little confidence isn't just affecting my love/romance life, it's also effecting my job, family, and just every aspect of my life.
I'm not usually this open, but I really want this in life, I want to change my life, so.

PLZ HELP!

1. Find you your own friends, even one friend that can be there for you to listen to your blabber in bad times. This is very important.
2. Read up on Self-confidence, body language and voice tonality.
3. Forget about your ex, and instead of leaving it to luck, do some work to get you a decent girl.

Hey i know exacatly what your going through. In october of last year me n my ex of 2 years broke up n i was depressed for a very long time n felt like i lost the girl of my dream but it got all better once i had an ah ha moment of that theres a lot of girls out there man 51% of the human population r women just learn to let go. Everytime i used to talk to my ex i also had those memories come up but now since i let it go i just think of all the good times as positive moments of my life and how i was able to make a girl happy n interested in me n the bad times i just think of ways i can improve my self. and you say u play guitar try to join a band find people that have the same music taste as u. just remember to let go n ull feel a lot better but its easier said then done n stay positive man