Yo guys wat up. Def new to PUA game. Im a college freshmen and am on the varsity soccer team at my respective school. Got a girl in my tutoring session at 7 once a week. She is on the women's soccer team and is a freshmen as well. She is a HB8 and is kinda the cute girl that people notice but don't tend to pursue. Very cute and pretty smart. Hadn't talked to her much b4 last Monday as i had only been to one tutoring session b4 that. Kinda hard to build kino as we sit across a table from one another not too far though and its just me her and the tutor who is chill and will let us talk if we want. She was really stressed out last time and dishevelled as she has had so much work to do so it was easy to strike up a convo a drop a couple jokes in there nothin to hard but nothin intimate or personal. Im kinda a slacker and played the apathetic BA role but not too hard. She seems like she would def have a B shield as she might be a lil uptight. Need to know how to Build COMFORT AND KINO WITh HER During Tutoring.Seems like i cant go in too strong cuz shes def the type that would not go for that or atleast i think but maybe im wrong. Like i said im a newbie so ive tried to give info on the girl and the situation.

Depends on what you mean by too strong. If she's truly a HB8, then you won't be able to sit back as a slacker and do nothing and expect her to take the lead. You will come across as WUSS then. First of all, with an HB8 you gotta be C & F. Then, if you're tutor is cool about you and her talking and "fraternizing", then you need to bust on her some. You know, find something to NEG her about. In other words, bust through that B shield. If I'm understanding this right, you say you've been in one tutoring session with her so far and hadn't talked to her much b4 that. And you're asking about building comfort and kino? It sounds to me like you need to focus on building ATTRACTION and kino right now. Once she's attracted to you, then you need to build comfort. If you build comfort first, you most likely won't get any attraction.

good point on that. I think the best way to go about that is show some DHV. She looks like she would appreciate that kinda thing. I think I have an idea about working on the attraction..its the kino building in this situation that I need some ideas for..

I think if you give yourself some QUALITY DHV spikes AND bust on her, she will then give you some opportunities for kino, such as leaning in closer, moving around the table to be closer, extended her arm and hand out to you, things like that.

One thing you COULD do for kino is some of the techniques such as reading her palm or taking her hands, putting them together, steepling the fingers, then rotating your finger around hers to bring her fingers together.

Ok, I don't know much about your school. But if it was like mine, all the tutoring took place in some stuffy classroom that every single person used. So lets be unpredictable with her shall we?

You: "So how's your tutoring going so far today?"
HB8: Blah Blah Blah Bored/Stressed
You: "Well lets try something different today. Lets have this session at the _______(Coffee Shop, Campus Garden, Soccer Field, i.e. A Change of VENUE)
Her: *Puzzled*
You: What? You said your Stressed/Bored so lets make this lesson different and go somewheres funner together.

Use the tutoring time as a FTC and refer to it when you get on scene if she takes the bait. When the lesson time is up, don't mention it but see if she stays. If she has to go back to work and she was cool drop the "We should do this more often, I wish we could continue talking" and #-close.

Now, this is going to be dependant on a couple things. Does she have a boss supervisor who checks to see she's tutoring, is there more than one person to a session, does the subject she's tutoring allow you to leave the class (i.e. Studying Computer Programs vs. Philosophy)

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Holden/28/Canada
Style of Game: Pragmatic Pimp Approach

bro that is a brilliiant strategy..i like it a lot but its not feasible in this situation. We have a tutoring room that we can't leave because the tutor is in there unfortunately. Once again under different circumstances i would have gone with the change of location. Any other way I can build the kino? I like the palm reading idea so how would i go on building off of that?

Oh ok, I misread your initial post. I thought she WAS the tutor. This makes it actually easier then.
Two Words: Study Group!

After the session some day as she's leaving in the hallway, do the approach and say:
You: "Hey did you understand the part when they talked about *some easy subject*?
Her: "Blha blah blah, Yes I do"
You: "Well do you have a minute to go over it with me. I could ask the tutor but I'd rather hear it from someone who's gonna be taking the test/quiz/exam/etc."

or, it will be

You: "Hey did you understand the part when they talked about *some easy subject*?
Her: "No, I only kinda know"
You: "OMG! Me too that tutor doesn't know what she's doing I think *Make the drinky drinky sign*
Her: (laughs)
You: "Well tell you what, are you free right now?"
Her: "Blah Blah Blah, Yes/No"
You: (if Yes) Lets goto this (coffee house, Student union building, etc.) and figure it out together.

or

You: (if No) Well that sucks cause I really want to get this done so I could get an A(DHV).

Branch into getting her email, MSN/AIM or whatever then setup a "study group" from there. Do NOT ask for her number because it seems too AFC and shows too much interest. You can do that after you online chat.

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Holden/28/Canada
Style of Game: Pragmatic Pimp Approach

Haha i like your thinking man. I'll give that one a go then. One more question that is kind of related to attraction but it involves body language during the conversation. I saw a clip of Mystery leaning in and then leaning out with his body like trying to show some disineterst or something...does anyone know about that technique and if so how do i apply it?

Leaning In = "pecking" = Shows too much interest
Leaning Back = Forces people to lean in = Gives you power

It's different in loud clubs because no one can really hear each other. But thats when you've got something to say you motion with your finger to "come close" and she bends over to hear. A very good move to build kino (i.e. Put your hand on her back, face while saying what you wanna say)

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Holden/28/Canada
Style of Game: Pragmatic Pimp Approach

Hey man, as far as the palm reading technique, you could go about it two ways.

First, if you're that concerned about getting it "right", then just look up some stuff online and check out a book that teaches it.

Second, you could just "wing it". Make up something funny about what you see on her hands or something totally ridiculous. It doesn't have to be "right", and if you handle youself right when you say it, she'll just laugh or be amazed, but will definitely be interested, because you're DIFFERENT than other guys.