Evnin lads,

i kinda noticed, if i get into a conversation with a girl i don't know very well, and i have the chance to talk to her a bit;
they will mostly tell me things like (during a multiple hour conversation that is)
"ye, and i got this guy waiting to pick me up", "i have a guy who is stalking me", "guy's always bother me when i'm at a party" etc....

now i wonder, why would she be telling me this, this is highly unattractive from my point of view...

my resposnes are something like: "blah, fuck that i would let you walk by foot if you called me for a lift", which hasn't gave me bad results...

and then eventually, altough all the guys are in line to bring her home, she needs to walk home... -> Bullshit?

so why would they tell me this....

i think they see it from female point of view: where they see a guy with alot of girls is attractive to them, so if she says that alot of guy's are intrested in her, she thinks that makes her attractive....?

you guy's got a vision on this one, or any experiences conserning this?

Thanks for the reading chrs

looks like she's trying to impress you from what I can see. Explaining how desired and wanted she is so just keep acting like you're not interested and neg her.

-Sleye

I agree with this. In my previous experience with women talking about other guys, drop a neg, or just dismiss it in a cheeky kinda way (I usually just laugh n say oh right, that bad is it. With a grin / cheeky smile). Soon as you react in the way she wants, you've lost.

Mmm, ye, she might be impressing me if that's the case i could've seen this as an IOI actually

thx

I would actually disqualify her for talking about other girls. Say something like;
sounds as though someone gets around alot SLUT! lol
I do this all the time, in a cheeky way, then they will be like... o im not really, larlarlar
then il say...
well alot of guys seem to think they owe you lifts, what did you do to earn them? my point exactly ! (i do this in a cheeky way then look the other way and step back slighlty)
she will then beg me to come back and explain herself, then say...
well ok, i believe you (smile) maybe take her hand as you do this...
and continue the conversation.....

this all depends on how well she will take it, i call girls sluts all the time, always add in the coffee ? kinda thing, but only with fun girls who know they arnt sluts who won't be offended.

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