hey guys could someone have a look at this like 4 line convo and say what ive done wrong, that is why she didn't reply, im curious so i know what to do next time, thanks


ME
Hey you know its not safe to poke strangers! I guess your parents never taught you that!

HER
No. I don't have parents. I was raised by wolves.
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ME
So if I slapped you on the ass! You would slap me on the ass back because I did it first? ...or is that unconventional among wolves?

HER
I would smack you across the face. Twice.
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ME
Beautiful and Dangerous I like...what would you do if I poked you again?

First of all it is verry hard to pick up or build attraction on FB, but that said, if you are wondering what you did wrong in this conversation, I can only see one big mistake. But it could be more because I don't know what kind of relationship you have with her.

The mistake you made is that insted of attracting her you worshipp her. Attracting means she is realizing she feels attracted to a you. While worshipping means you are putting her on a pedestal and trying to bribe her to like you more.

When we realize for oureselvs that we are attracted to someone. We FEEL it on the inside. We start to change how we look at that person. But if someone is bribing us and pushing us to make us like them more. We are always goning to feel superior and lose respect for them.

oh she was a total stranger, but thnks alot for the advice

Girls lose interest easy when you don't have them in front of you. You kind of went in a circle with your conversation and she obviously didn't appreciate the line about being slapped on the ass. That line was overtly sexual too early, you look like a pervert.

thanks for the help

I disagree with building attraction on FB is hard.

What i do is this.... meet a girl, like her, if i cant get near her or see her briefly il fb her.

Start flirting with her, making it known that im awesome, have good all awesome pics of me doing cool things, il flirt etc... not for too long, get her thinking about me, use winks, tongues etc...

Get her in that state where she wants to meet you in person, and u can flirt straight off and shes atracted to you.

just the fact that you are showing a good amount of interest can build attraction up and make them think,,, mhmmm, hes cute

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It's hard compared to having a girl in front of you when you can just throw your arm around her. And I live in a college town so girls around here are super snooty about grammar and spelling. Maybe it's all in my head, but I feel like things are much more in hand when I have a girl in person.

I'm assuming you poked her and she poked you back, so you responded with this, right? It's canned, but it's a good opener I think. Off to a good start.



OK she responds, that's good. This response from her could be a fuck off, but more likely she's just being playful. That's cool, I love talking to girls who are quick-witted wiseasses. It's just more fun that way and it meshes with my personality well.

So we need to proceed as if she's being playful, because if she's not it's game over anyway. So assume she's interested in talking to you.



Here's where you lost me. This response just doesn't make any sense to me. Also, the punctuation doesn't seem to be correct, but maybe that's just me who knows.

This response seems like it's designed for when she says something like "you did it to me first". Since she didn't say that, I don't like using this here.



This is another one of those responses that could kinda be a fuck off. But since she's responded twice and (I assume) poked you back, shes probably still interested in talking to you at this point.


it's way too early to be giving out huge compliments like this without taking it away a little bit. I don't totally hate it, but it does come off as a little too AFC to me.