Sometimes, when I'm around other men, it's common they talk about women, like, to watch and to see movies and pictures of naked women, whorship them, saying their're hot and wanna fuck them, and I must say, I feel a little uncomfortable with that.

Not because I'm don't like women, but it seems like I can't integrate, remaining in the edge.

I mean, they talk about women as they're animals hunting their prey, but, although it's feels really nice be part of it, at same time I can't be a part of it, because I not there yet, but developing my sucess with women.

I'd love just to be lik them, say what they say, act like them, but noneless I try, sounds like unnatural, cause I'm not like them but pretending I'm like them, and this confusion is hard, I'm affraid to be excluded by them with I don't change.

Of course I wanna change, otherwise I wouldn't be here, I think I'm just affraid to be accepted and be alone, what do you guys think about that all?

Dude.
Screw the chicks,seriously,your girlfriend or wife deserve your respect,not all woman

dude most guys are dumb and crude---ive been in those kinda situations and just have a look at the fellas dat boast about their conquests ---what woman in their right mind would go near them---those guys are lying.

ok we talk about it here because it is afterall a pick up forum---and we share experiences and advice---its different.

witnessed a scene in a car park yesterday----3 skantily clad guys---shorts and no tops
were making their way to a car and the one behind is calling ''steamer''{local slang for homosexual] at another one.

now i took an objective look at this-----youve got 3 guys wearing hardly anything getting into a tiny car---Nissan Micra and one shouting homosexual in a joking way at the other.

I think Freud said there is really no such thing as a joke----the shouter was making it blatantly obvius to everyone but himself that he is gay and getting excited at the prospect of geting into a small car with other semi naked men

This comment requires a bit of thought.

I might be a pickup snob...

But I think that it is important to learn the difference between respect and worship. It sounds evident but many many newbies fall into this trap.

Truth to tell, every single girl you meet deserves respect. This goes for guys too. You should respect everybody, until they show you that they dont deserve it.

What I think that you are trying to say is that you shouldnt treat girls like princesses and go out of your way to make them feel valuable before you know that they deserve it.

Newbies who find their new "POWERS" often wanna use them to treat girls like they themselves have been treated. They are so happy to finally get their payback for all the pain they have experienced. But guess what, this is not what the game is for.

Disrespect is what people do when they themselves are out to protect their fragile ego. Its a mantra. Get over that phase as fast as possible, you might get stuck in the asshole mentality. I know whats its like, I have been there. When you finally get out of it, you are more powerful than ever.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn