Do you work in a small company or a big company? If your working at a small company thats actually a lot harder then working at a bigger company where you can simply sit at other sections.

.WS

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True communication is communion―the realization of oneness, which is love! ~ Eckhart Tolle

Big company, but our store happens to be rather...smallish.

In our department, there's only 4 people, plus 2 managers. 3 of us are usually closing at any given time, so yeah, she's ALWAYS THERE.

Headache. And heartache.
What's the best course of action?

well this story has nothing to do with pickup but is relevant as to where ignoring a woman in the workplace can lead

D a middle aged male friend of mine fell out with his female boss at a leasure centre it was non sexual or romantic.

he refused to speak too her or look at her for two years, she tried everything hot and cold to get his attention--she tried to pick out fault in his work but he was too careful and by the book so she couldnt get him---she turned into a real nightmare --glaring and bad mouthing him---he wouldnt give her the satisfaction and continued blanking her and passing her with out looking. 2 years on

2 days before christmas she made a direct approach with hand outstretched to make friends with him--he walked passed her without looking.


She LOST THE FUCKING PLOT

This attractive well groomed upper class lady turned into a snarling wild cat ran at the guy with nails outstretched trying to claw his eyes out ,he tried to restrain her by grabbing her arms and only got away from her by pushing her into the swimming pool which they were beside---this was all captured on cctv camera and she was sent for councelling by her superiors---the incident was hushed up

And the guy still walks past her without looking

So...if I keep ignoring her, she will get psychotically obsessed with me. The tables will turn.

Like, psychotically obsessed, if I ignore her, 100%.

Forget about her, ignore her requests, avoid eye contact, pretend she doesn't exist, do my job while ignoring her, etc...

If I ignore her for, say, 2 months or less...
...she will want to pounce on me and fuck my dick to oblivion, and then perhaps love me to death, forever.

...oh dear, time to play the ignoring game.

Ruane

Maybe 3 months

You could go for a relocation (or atleast task with the managers about it in a joking way).

like a: I think i want to be relocated this store has way to much issues and then look at the girl (so be sure she hears0

Afterwards tell the manager your simply notificing a struggle between you two and that you dont want to be relocated at all but you want her to be motivated to change and hope she will do so.

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True communication is communion―the realization of oneness, which is love! ~ Eckhart Tolle

make a sexual harrasment complaint against her--if the situation was reversed what would she do

NO dont go all sexual harassment on her girls love drama!

Seriously I say just ignore her except for professionally.

When she tell you to do something just say '' Got it'' and get it done then continue on with your day.

Otherwise if she mentions anything outside of work find a way to smoothly get out of the conversation. And keep a subtle sexual tension...like give her a look but thats it dont go any further than that.

This says '' I want to fuck your brains out, but I dont want you to know it, and Im trying to hide it from you.''

Hey.

I've ignored her for 2 weeks now.

Guess what?

...she's creeping by me, touching my arm, bumping into me, trying to talk to me, and flirting with me nonstop. XD.

Ignoring WORKS.
The proof is in the faith.

And guess what I'm going to do when I see her next time?


...Ignore her.





To be continued...

if shes this bad after only 2 weeks she will be at wild woman stage by 1 month--make sure you DO speak to her all nice like if there is anyone else around in the workplace that sees her speaking to you

Ignoring her, while also responding to her nonsense "briefly".

...she comes up to me, and starts talking to me, trying to have a conversation. I talk to her, but play uninterested. She's silent, but wanting to be around me. She fiddles with her water bottle, around her iPhone, and fiddles with her feet. She looks at me, maintains eye contact, and smirk-smiles.

...I leave to fix my area, ignore her, and she follows me. I'm happy.

And guess what?

...I'm still going to ignore her.

Hehehe.

this is crazy!
i say ignore only in terms of being attractive. same as if u were out
but then just bite the bullet - ask her out
if it turns to shit after that. well, nightmare over

No Ruan

Keep ignoring her--she will break

I don't even need to ignore her now.

I still do, but she's coming up to me, talking, and trying to have a conversation. We talk for a bit, but I act uninterested. She comes closer, she pokes me, she plays with her shoe while talking to me, twiddling her toes, and brushing her hair. I look, then I almost break, but I manage to go "ok..."

...this is hard. I WANT TO TALK TO HER, but I still need to ignore her.

...I think I'm going to talk to her now. "ignoring" is over; I still care about her.

Thoughts?