I've been seeing this girl for 7 months. We have a very good relationship.

She's having problems at work. A few co-workers that were once friendly are starting
to hit on her in increasingly bold ways. She's tells me about it and
shows me the texts, tells me how it bothers her.

She does not want it to bother me, saying "don't let my job bother you."

It does bother me. It's not jelousy. I'm upset that this is making her job suck,
It's stressfull to begin with. It's the feeling you get when someone harasses
a close friend, but worse.

I've told her to stand up for herself, that people respect that. She's to nice
sometimes and does not want to start trouble.

I've meet the one guy 4 or 5 times, hung out, seems nice enough, he's married.
We are, as is typical these days, facebook friends. That's really the only
avenue of communication I have with him. Y'all should know I've never done
anything stupid on facebook. My job kind of keeps me from being an idiot on there.

How do I handle this? Send his wife a note? Problem is, I'm not involved when there's
a fallout and it gets ugly. I have nothing to do with her job.

We had a talk about it last night, I told her to say something, stick up for herself.
I got a half-hearted answer about how that's not a good idea. I got upset about
her being wimpy and she had a hard time with that.

She'll probabbly get upset if I did anything, but the stuff that this guy sends my
girlfriend is getting way out of line.

send him a message on facebook qouting a text that you dont like and tell him youd appreciate it if he didnt send things like this to your girl. if he finds out you see her texts then he will probably back off.

That seems like a terrible situation, mate!

if i were you i'd simply go talk to him; don't be threatening or anything, infact, people often get scared if you approach them with a vicious kindness, you could have said something in the direction of "Hey, i met your wife at the corner store the other day, oh she seems so sweet.. But .. How does it work out, when you're flirting with xxx? Are you sure she'd be comfortable with that? And.. Oh.. How about your boss, how would he like it, if you were flirting with girls at work, oh well.. I'm sure it'll work out mate!"

He'd get the picture, and would most likely just back off, if not.. Well, then you talk to both his wife and his superviser, and fucks his life!

Hope everything works out!

If it's really "Sexual Harassment" as you say you should just contact the police. Or atleast tell the idiot that he needs to stop or else you will go to the police. Just save the messages.