Hi All,
This is my first post.
A quick note about me: I'm an average looking (balding) guy in his late 20's. Split from a 3-year LTR about 5 weeks ago and have since dedicated myself to learning PUA skills to enjoy life with more women.
This is a recap of me landing my first lay since the big breakup. My target is a couple years younger me (which is tons of fun) and I'd put her at 5.5.
[b]Opening and A Game[/b]
I've played on an adult kickball league for a few seasons. My ex and I joined a team as something to get us out more on the weekdays. She decided to leave the team when we split up and I was in charge of finding another girl to replace her spot on the roster.
I found the target as I was out 'recruiting' girls who were already playing kickball on the same night. I guess this is literally in-field sarging. (Get it? Field?)
A1:
Opening was incredibly easy as everything was under the pretense of joining another kickball team. She joined that same night and I introduced her to my group of friends who were already on the team. She ended up being an awesome athlete but I negged her at least 3 times through the course of the first game.
Example Neg:
(After she made an incredible diving attempt at the ball) "Hey, great effort. But, we're going to need that jersey back at the end of the night." (Every player wears a jersey during the game and we had to give her my ex's in order for her to join the team.)
A2:
Over the next 2 weeks she continued to show up the games. On night we played happen to by my birthday and a few members of the team were going to join me for a few drinks to celebrate. This was news to her and she complained that she had to get up early in the morning. After a little consideration she said she "wouldn't want to disappoint me on my birthday." (I considered this a HUGE IOI).
I said that we should be Facebook friends and exchanged info. She offered her phone number as well just in case I needed to call her about kickball games being canceled or rescheduled.
I quickly quipped:
"You don't care about games getting canceled. You want my phone number because you're attracted to me."
Her:
"That's so cheesy. You must say that to all the girls." (She's right on both accounts.)
A3:
About a week after my birthday the target announced she had to leave the team and was moving back to her hometown. Two days later I asked her out via text. Here's how it went:
Text Game: (This is verbatim as I thought my Text Game was a big part of my success)
Me - Thursday 5P: "Up for a drink later tonight? I'll be at *** Bar with a few friends around 9."
Her - Thursday 6:45: "hey id love to but i think im going to b stuck at work late
but tomorrow im off for 3 days...we def have to do something"
Me - Thursday 11P: "I'll text you tomorrow..."
Me - Friday Noon: "Let's together around 9ish. I have fun night planned. You should come along."
[i](Following in PUA-style I've never mentioned date or even a dinner. I refused to "pay without play." So, I setup the night to start after dinner time.) [/i]
Her - Friday 12:30: "Lol ok...should I be scared?"
Me - Friday 12:45: "Scared? No. Just look pretty for me. We're gonna meet up some friends. Should be fun!"
[i](The previous night I setup a pair of couples to meet up on Friday.) [/i]
Her - Friday 1: "Ok...ill try to contain the ugly for a few hours! ha"
[i](Strange response but she is a 5. I thought I should hold off on the negs during our date.) [/i]
Me - Friday 1:30: "Sure. I'll call you when I'm done with dinner..."
[i](Wanted her to know I'm a busy guy and that we're not doing dinner) [/i]
Me - Friday 8:30: "U excited....???"
[i](I don't think this a great text but I wanted to gauge my chances on sex.) [/i]
Her - Friday 8:30: "Yep! Except I still don't know what we're doing"
Me - Friday 8:40: "Running around town grabbing drinks and playing grab ass."
[i](Wanted to make sure I steered the conversation towards sex early in the date. Turns out you can do that even before the date!) [/i]
Her - Friday 8:45: "Lol sounds like fun!"
Me - Friday 9: "4282 ****** Drive. Apt #1. 32804. Meet me at my place in 25 mins."
[i](I intended for her to come over to my place so we could quickly build comfort and it would be much easier to seduce her after the date. Pretty bold assumption that she would come over...I had no idea in what part of town she lived.) [/i]
Her - Friday 9:01: "k"
Me - Friday 9:05 "Call me when you get here and I'll come get you."
[i](Tonight was going to be fun.) [/i]
The Date / Day 2
C1: My Place
She called and I met her the parking lot of my apartment building. Using some techniques from Mystery I gave a big time constraint saying that she needed to come inside so I can finish getting ready (even though I've been watching Sportscenter for an hour). I was in my jeans and undershirt.
When I met her outside and I was sure to give her a big hug. I've never hugged her before and not really the 'hugging type' but I forced to get the kino started early.
She came in and I ran back to my room and shouted to her to help herself to a glass of wine. She had her shield up pretty high and said she was a lightweight and would have one drink at whatever place we were going to. (I still hadn't told her what I had planned.)
I poured myself a glass and poured her's. I set her's on the coffee table in front of the couch. See sat on the couch and grabbed the glass. She takes direction really well.
I had some light music playing in the background. My favorite movie (Bottlerocket) on the TV and the place was spotless.
I sat next to her (no kino) and shared my insights on the movie. Fluff talk for a few minutes and then I told we needed to get moving in the next few minutes.
C2: The Book Store
This would be my first 'date' in over 3 years. I wanted to start at a non-suspect comfort-building location. Plus, I was planning to attend my buddy's bachelor party the next day. I told her that we needed to go the book store so I could pick up a sex advice book for my friend.
We drove through the backroads to get to mega bookstore that stays open late. She started pursuing some titles and mentioned she was looking for a particular book written by some chick.
I approached the nerdy bookstore employee who was maybe a 4 (a 5 with her cute glasses). She helped us out and could see my target getting a little excited that I was outgoing and leading the situation.
We picked up her chick lit and we beelined for the sexy section in the store. We laughed at a few of the titles. There was one book - a how-to guide for women to give great blowjobs. There were full nude, sexually explicit photos. I thumbed through it as I stared in her eyes and smiled. She laughed but was beginning to see where this date was going.
At checkout we were in line with this older couple. I made sure to chat them up a bit. This was a great to deflect my target and basically kill time. I mean, I still had 4-5 comfort building routines in my pocket but I'm not going to waste them while in line at a book store.
Walked to the parking lot and kino tested some. I grabbed her hand and gave her a spin...like we were dancing or something. Awkward. Her big purse swung around and hit me square in the crotch.
C3: The bars
In the car I asked if she preferred liquor or beer. She answered beer. I had a place for each option. Glad she picked beer though because this place was pretty close and had a great vibe.
Sat at the bar for about 20 mins trying fancy beers. I came up with a routine right on the spot. Here's how it went:
The Coaster Comfort-Building Routine:
I took my bottle of beer and placed it square in front of me on the bar. I took a coaster and placed that in front of her. I explained that I was the bottle of beer and she was the coaster. And, that "I knew from the first moment we met that was there was something about you that I needed to figure out." She rolled her eyes and could see right through my BS. I pressed on.
"You see, you're the coaster. And, I'm here in my own world. Doing just fine. And here you come (I move the coaster around the bottle of beer...like how the moon orbits the earth) swirling around on the outside."
I orbited the coaster a few more times. Getting closer and closer to the bottle on each pass.
I asked her, "why are you here? What is it about you that I need to know?"
I looked in her eyes and she smiled. I quickly went in to another routine that I've been field-testing for about a week or so.
The Fake ID Comfort-Building Routine:
My younger brother is a freshman in college. He has $6k cash under his dorm room bed. He has a habit of making high-quality fake IDs and selling them at $100 a pop. Business is booming.
I asked her what advice I should give him. I explained that this has been going on for a year and at first I was strongly against this...explaining that he would get caught, go to jail and ruin is life. But now, I'm giving him business advice on how to increase sales, outsource production and move the transactions online so he can expand his market.
"I've explained to him that there are 2 options. He stops or he gets caught. I've been encouraging him to set a goal of how much money he wants to make and then stop. Am I the world's worst older brother?"
I like this routine because it's a relatively exiting topic. It shows that I care about my family and that I'm a natural leader because I constantly give him advice. Plus, it's easy to get them talking about their college days.
Could also be a great opener....hmmmm...
The Kiss Test
After all this C routine, the 2 imported beers and tons of little kino at the bar, my target is getting ready. I wanted to know exactly where I stood before we moved to our last location.
I haven't kissed another girl in 3 years and I was a little nervous about how this would end up.
"You know...I think you're having a wonderful time. I think you're falling in to my trap. I've spent all day thinking about how tonight would go and it couldn't be going any better."
I looked at her and she smiled and nodded.
"I deserve a kiss."
I turned my cheek to her.
I couldn't believe it. She resisted. Maybe she wasn't ready. Maybe because there were tons of people around us and a bartender pouring drinks right in front of us.
I looked at her with anger in my eyes (I know I'm not supposed to do this.). I re-presented my cheek and she leaned over and gave me a peck.
"Let's get out of here," I said.
More C3: The Karokee Bar
By now we're getting a little lit up. I passed the kiss test. More kino on the way back home and I was thinking I might be able to wrap up this date right now. But, I setup 4 friends to meet up at a nearby karokee bar and I couldn't let them down.
This location was tough because it was packed. I was able to runaround and grab a table that we all 6 of us sit at and it was right in the front row. Felt pretty cool about that.
Tons of kino going on under the table. My friends are asking her questions and I'm grabbing her outer thigh, her inner thigh and she has her hand on top of mine.
We spent about an hour fluff talking, singing along and drinking more beer.
I was called to perform my karokee masterpiece. I was pretty drunk by now so I made sure I went over the top. Great crowd response and a big smile from my target when I got back to the table. Time to get out of here.
Seduction:
I read that I needed to kiss close before even trying seduction. And, since we needed to go back to my place to her car, I knew this was going to be crucial in order to get laid tonight.
We walked from the bar to my car hand-in-hand. Once we were a few feet from my car I pulled her close we began to make out. She was a pretty good kisser.
I made some manly grunting noise that other seemed to like. She kissed me harder. I grabbed her ass and pinned against the car door. After a few more seconds I pulled away and said, "not here."
About a 15-minute drive home. I shuffled around the CD player and made comments on the tracks I picked. More fluff talk.
Last Minute Resistance:
I parked my car and simply assumed that she was coming in to finish what we started. I closed the car door and headed to my apartment. She walked the other way towards her car.
"Aren't you coming in for one more drink?" I asked.
"One more drink? One more drink? I'm done." She was kinda drunk by now. What a lightweight.
"Yeah, one more drink. We need to finish the movie." Oh shit. I wasn't prepared for this. My mind was racing. What would Mystery do here!? I need to brush up on my LMR game.
"C'mon," I said to her. By now she was 20 feet away from me, back-peddling towards her car.
I turned around and walked to my front door. She quickly followed me. This was some Jedi mind stuff. Close one.
Seduction: On my couch
She quickly made herself at home. Sat on the couch and took her shoes off. That's a good sign.
Flipped on the movie and poured some more wine. Took a piss and she did too.
I knew this girl was mine by now. I laid off on some of the game. Focused more on the movie and the background music I had playing. I wanted to draw this out for a few minutes. I wanted to make her wait.
Guys, I wish I had a special move to reinstate the kino to share with you. After 10 minutes of fluff and making eye contact I simply leaned in and kissed her. She met me half way.
I touched her tits and she groaned in this high-pitch voice I've never heard before. This was going to be easy.
I climbed on top of her and she slid under me on the couch. I love being on top of a woman in this position. A few more minutes of making out, grabbing her tits and grinding my cock on her hips.
I led her to the bedroom and made her cum.
It was good night.
Recap:
- Opened her in a non-suspicious location.
- Took about 4 weeks of attraction building.
- Text game was huge to switch the conversation to sex.
- Planned out the first date perfectly. She came to my place first, comfort building and kino at a book store. Speed up comfort-building at another location. DHV at karokee bar by showing her I had great friends and performed a decent karokee song.
- Kiss closed before moving to seduction.
- Overcame LMR with confident body language.
- Made her cum
Your thoughts and comments are much appreciated! - dickrock
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