So the first date went well. I was using natural game (not that I have it in excess), just being myself..being friendly. The conversation was good, we talked at dinner for around 21/2 to 3 hours. Night ended with some making out.

That was thursday..we were supposed to hand out tonight. She was going to her friend's graduation at CSUF during the day and thought she'd be free tonight. Turns out there was a grad party that night which she thought would be during the day.

Now she DID invite me to the party..but i declined. Instead we rescheduled for wed. night. The thing is I was texting her during the party a few times and I had the last word.

I'm feeling like I've been too available since our date with the calling and texting. I was considering cancelling wed. night but had a couple questions. First, is it too presumptuous to cancel? Second, if I do cancel should i reschedule it or leave it at that and say something like I'll call her later.


Any thoughts?

well yeah maybe you shouldn't have text her during a party. she is bussy then, being socially (and perhaps flirting?) with other people, having text messages from "the guy with whom i made at a few days ago", might have been annoying then, but that depends on how well you played her and how much and how well you texted her.

she might have cancelled the date, but in the end, she did invite you to the party nonetheless, which means she really wanted to see you.

i don't really see why you should cancell the date, because she asked you to come to the party, and you said "no", which already means you're not too available.

if the time between the 2 dates takes too long she might lose attraction and interest. since it was thursday, and you're going to meet her wednesday (6 days between), i wouldn't schedule the date to a later day.

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@ Shyler
thanks man that helps.

I think I'm gonna ignore any texts or calls from her today and tomorrow..or should i just ignore for today? If I don't hear from her today I'll ignore her tomorrow.

Here's the thing.

If you have nothing to do, it's going to feel like you're ignoring the calls. If you have something to do and you genuinely don't have your phone on you or can't answer, it'll work out better. Don't ignore for the sake of ignoring.

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@ Dr. Beat
true..true..

hmmm i can see your still struggling with natural game in the same areas I am in the way you declined the second date just to play hard to get
I dunno, I can't speak enough for flat out natural game enough to just say that you shouldn't pull a move like that but I get the feeling you shouldn't have as doing so didn't sit well with you. you texting her during the party is proof

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