there was this girl who takes every morning the tram with me for years. but because it was early in the morning, i never talked to her cuz i was tired.
when i met her at a party, i opened her with a cocky line "hi re you shy? we've been taking the tram for years and you still haven't talk to me yet".

when i saw her again on the tuesday after the party, i started talking with her. it went really well. she seemed to be a shy, but talkative girl. i delt with shit tests, made her laughing, i had a strong frame, used some other techniques, and it went great.

when i saw her again thursday at the tram, i got her number. we were just talking about stalkers, so i told her "no worries, i will not stalk you", to which she said "haha no you may stalk me" (which i didn't ofcourse, but it was an IOI). she even asked me for my number, but i told her that i would sent her a text message so that she would have mine.

friday i saw her again at the tram that morning. everything went well again.

around 7 o'clock, i called her spontaneously to meet me at the fair. she said she was there already with her friends, but that they wanted to see me. so there i was hanging around with 4 girls. i did very well then and concentrated more on her friends and making them laugh a lot.

her body language wasn't realy good altough. her friends wanted something to happen, so they isolated us. i was sitting next to her. i took her hand, she squeezed back. but then she wanted to go back to her friends. we stood up, but still holding hands, i pulled her against me. she said "i dont know", then i said something (dont remember), and kissed her, and she kissed back.

she kissed back. but she went too fast so i turned my head back saying "not so fast". i wanted to continue with "let me take it over", but she said again "i dont know. lets go back to our friends".

I dont realy see what i did wrong. i think it might have to do with her being shy, or that she tought she didn't knew me well enough.
but still, it was actually day 3 or 4.
in the tram, i spoke her each time for like 20 minutes.

i would like to have some advice on this (why the LMR and what should have been better?) and how i should continue with this girl or whether i should better move on.

cheers!

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