Next time you're opting for an situational/opinion opener, go for something more EXCITING, and one that will pique her attention fifty folds more.
If you put yourself in her shoes, I doubt you'd feel very interested in providing an answer to whether you look like the guy across the room.
Ask questions like...
"Hey (smile) , I need a woman's opinion, this will be quick. I'm doing a survey on FIRST IMPRESSIONS I give

Now, in 5 seconds, you're going to pretend we just met. I want you to describe me in 3 words on the impression you're getting from me.
Ready? let's go."
An opener like that would be more engaging, mind stimulating, and fun. You can then branch off from there. Hope that helps.
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