OK, so me and a couple of mates went out to our local clubbing "district" saturday.
Setting: a enclosed area with a shit load of clubs and bars... only 1mile away from campus and the dorms (HEAVEN). Anyways, we went to our bar where we met up with some of my wingwoman (damn skippy my lady friends think its entertaining to see me in action... and they like to call over new sets and introduce them 2 me)

Sooooo, 2 promo girls HB8 & 7 come to our table and me always being sarcastic dont even realize saying: " sorry my mom doesnt allow me to talk to strangers"
I then turn to my friend and say out loud " keep an eye on this 1 (HB8), and i shift my drink towards me and cover it with my hands.
They both laughed so hard, i even started to chuckel...
see untill friday i couldnt figure out what my problem was, and it hit me... congruence!!!!!!!!!!!
When im cocky funny (almost always) it tend to say things like its only a joke or my bad... and then appologize (force of habit had shitty friends at a time with no humor) This screws up your whole frame making your cockeyness useless... (I know it sounds logic but if you didnt know it trust me it can feel like a break throu!!!!!!!!)
And this time i just stayed in frame... WORKED LIKE A CHARM......
We made some light fluff talk some light kino touch arm and called her closer for a "secret" LOL. and after a while told them that they should join us after work for a drink... (close)
CLOSE:
"after work you guys should join us for a drink, but were not going to be at (barname) he whole night... (take out phone) put in your number and ill ring u at 12(when she knocks off) to meet up with us. (number softner): pssssssst I wont tell my mom Pinkey promise (saying this out loud with my hand over my mouth as if its a secret)
Would like your input on this one, i tried it on 2 other sets and work with great success on them too... Let me know what you guys think of this 1.
Peace out... V

Nice dude! I def wouldn't mind trying that sometime.

I have that problem too at times but I realized it not too long ago and am breaking the habit.

hahaha i felk cocky just reading that hahah cheeeeky
but hey between you and me how good is it having a winglady that enjoys seeing you pick up hahah...i have one too, girls look at you differently when they know your with a girl

my mom tells me not to tlk to people i dont know over the internet as well so i should probably go

catch ya

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Thanx guys, im going out 2morrow trying a new opener i thought of last night.
Its called SHAVED OR HAIRY... Give it a read.

Happy sarging....

Peace Out...V

EUREKA!!

Have always found cocky funny easy but have never worked out why it's sometimes more successful than others.

CONGRUENCE

I nearly always break my frame by apologising afterwards (again with people who don't get it)

The times I've been successful I've had the "fuck-it" attitude and not apologised.

Thanks dude, this weekends sarging just got much more fun..........


Scamps

LOL, thats so true man!!!
See i felt sick and wasnt really in a sarging mood so i kinda had a fuck'it attitude...
Glad i could help you dude, wished someone told me that earlier, coz i make a lot of cocky and funny comments in a night, i dont like to be too serious, thats just who i am.
I am Def ganna make congruence part of my lifestyle from now on, in all aspects.

What materials did you guys read(are reading) ?
Do you guys have any good cocky funny openers?

Peace Out...V