hey i closed this chick of a dating site and shes hot and she finds me hot. weve talked on the text and texted each other alot and were going to meet up over the weekend but she was sick.

we talked through the week but not alot and i thought she lost interest so i called. she said that she didnt want to be to clingy texting me all the time and ringing so we havnt talked for a few days.

we havent meet in person yet and i really want to because i know that the texting and phone talk is getting old and shell lose interest. im pretty sure she already is.

i texted her tonight and fucked up i said 'what r u doing' she said ' nothing im about to go to bed, you?" i said ' heaps bored, i was going to ring you, but il let you sleep' she didnt reply then i said " call i call you tomorrow" she said yeah.

I fucked it i think.

What does anyone else think, im very new to pickup

Yeah, you might have fudged it abit, but if you're able to build some comfort over the phone you still might be in for a chance...


Your problem? You're putting WAY too much pressure on the girl.

Imagine you were a girl and some guy *you haven't met* is constantly calling you on the telephone, texting, emailing and whatever else just because you called him attractive and said you *might* be interested in getting to know him. It would be really, really, really fucking annoying even if you liked the guy at first.

Hell, imagine a girl doing that to you; a girl you haven't met keeps calling you at inconvenient times, texting non-stop and practically begging for your cock - weird!

Forget about fucked it scenario, call her sometime without warning, initiate conversation, keep it brief, then set up a meet.

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yeah icewalker, but its was the oppsite, she was calling me and texting ME sending pics, everynight for a week but she was reluctent to meet i think, saying shes sick etc.

and i think i shud have pushed forward and tried harder to meet, but i played it too cool and didnt push it and now shes not bothered. It was weird that she was overdoing the contact with me with text and phone now nothing.

gunna ring her tonight anyhow, try and make her comfortable and meet me. but for today its out talking to new people. thanks

You're not putting enough pressure on. Turn it up, push for a meeting, or you're going to be stuck in limbo until the heat dies entirely.

I'd say since you already built attraction with her since she does text you, try a freeze out. Put the ball in her court, tell her "blah blah blah the decision is yours blah blah" and don't respond to her until she gives you the magic words "lets meet.

If she never texts, on the the next one.

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Break off contact. See if you made enough of an impression for her to come to you. If not, it's most likely over, but wait some, and then give her a ring with a PLAN that seems spontaneous. For example, "Hey, my buddy got called into work and I need someone fun to go to blah blah blah..."