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This should enable you to get at least 3 minutes conversational smalltalk going in a group thats willing to talk, this will buy you time to work in teases and what ever other PU material you wish

So open however you want, there is plenty in my other posts on how I open so read them if it interests you, but for beginners try to just open with situational stuff < In my opinion situational openers are the best anyway if you're not after one paticular girl but just out to try your luck with groups, but there is ways to open with what seems to be situational but in reality you worked it that way if you like one particular girl, I'm not going to talk about this thou

When you're first talking to a group find out who everyone is, this would be the "how do you guys all know each other" question I'm sure you've heard, thou I turn it into statements

E.g. "so who are you?"... "ah cool I'm... I take it this is your friend..." and so on, this is introductions.

So the subject is "getting to know everyone" < good incase they have a boyfriend with them

"what are you guys up to tonight?" you can ask this straight up, and then talk a little bullshit about what you're doing

next up, talk about the clubs SPAM, what do you notice about it? is it packed, dead, too warm, nightmare to get to the bar etc try to make these come off humourously so you don't sound like your bitchen

Thats it, that will get you a few minutes of social comfort conversation in a bar or club, which will give you time to start working in PU tactics and get you used to conversation with new people

Cheet Sheet - these do not need to be in any order you can mix, blend and improvise - listen - share your thoughts - and ask open ended questions


Get to know who everyone is

What are they up to that night

Talk about the club or bars SPAM


If you can add in any little bits of humour or funny things you notice but be friendly, listen and respond to what they say with your own thoughts and feelings but remember humour! don't bitch

This exercise will get you used to talking to new people, start to tune in your social calabration and buy you time to practice your PU tactics/bodylanguage

If you feel you're about to run out of things to say, then don't stand around because that will ruin any comfort you built up, instead just simply say "right I needa find my mates" or "later guys I'm away to get another drink (or) smoke" whatever and tell them it was nice talking to them and you might see them later

REMEMBER NOT EVERY GROUP WILL OPEN, SOMETIMES PEOPLE HAVE JUST OTHER THINGS GOING ON

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Additional small talk subjects

Drink -

Talk about what they're drinking, were they partying before they came out, about times when you've had a mad night out, cocktails - which I can add in places I've been to abroad, about working as a barman (things I found funny that I hated about the job) which can lead into talking about people (drunks and people that piss you off at bars) < using humour offcourse and bitching (I'm sure theres more)

Clothes -

Comment about what they are wearing, you can even tease about how long it took them to get ready, I will try to make conversation about how girls are really competitive/jealous of each other in clubs when it comes to clothing - this subject can get very good reactions and alot can be done with it if you listen to them rant

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Taking the conversation a little further after isolation (isolation can simple mean just you and her talking face to face, her friends can still be around)

gauge it on her interest

"What do you do"

This will come up in every conversation you ever have with a girl at some stage, it sounds boring when done in the traditional "what do you do" form, but theres no reason why you should ask this question in that way but give it a little more flair

(expand it) "what are you doin with your self at the minute any plans"

Then you can add in a few statements on what you're doing or want to do (usually mines based around travel and future career stuff) based on what she says, get your opinions, thoughts, feelings, likes and dislikes going and bang you're in a conversation

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Quick conversation formula

Step 1 Ask a preprapared question or make a statement (something you've noticed or whatever)

Step 2 Listen

Step 3 Ask an open ended question or make a statement (thought/memory/feeling/opinion etc) on the subject

Then repeat steps 2 and 3 (step 3 is basicly the same as step one only step 1 is starting a new topic)

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