Went out with her last night, and k-closed (but was alil sloppy just went for it).

We talked later and I told her she still owed me a massage, and she replied "I know! but what will I get in return?"

I said "Well if its a good massage maybe another kiss"

I think she digging me alil cause she replied "a kiss? Lets make it a little more interesting."

If I messed up anywhere guys let me know so I can improve. But things are going great right now.

Once again thanks everyone for their help!

Moment.
Translation: Let's have sex!
Wrong answer.
You're thinking.
You're thinking.
And, you're back to square one.

When you see her again, start rolling the ball, and FUCK HER.
She wants you to.

Do not think. Do. DO NOT THINK. DO.
Stop thinking, hang out with her, build, escalate, FUCK HER.
Then, thank us.

Sheesh.

Rune is right, you blew a huge opening. You already kissed her, you're supposed to escalate. Are you gonna make the girl beg or what?

Man this shit is confusing! Was I suppose to escalate that night when i k-closed? When she asked "What will I get in return?" what should I have replied, because it seems just texting "lets have sex" is alil out there... or is it?

We have text a few times since that night, but doesn't seem to getting far. What is one way to save this from going under?

STOP. FUCKING. TEXTING. This is the flow chart of sex. ---->talking to a stranger online--->texting on the phone---->talking on the phone---->date-like activity--->foreplay (you are roughly here when you make out)---->sex. YOU ARE TAKING LIKE THREE STEPS BACK. Yes, texting "lets have sex" is pathetic if you haven't closed yet. You should've said, "Wait and see. Sooner you give me that massage, sooner you get your prize". Give her something to look forward to, she will assume you mean sex anyway. You totally acted like the 40 Year Old Virgin by saying a kiss when sex was on her mind.

Anyway, forget all this shit. Text or call with the intention of getting her back to date-like activity. Then follow the chart to the natural conclusion. Do not deviate! Start off by spending a night out outside the gym, end with taking her to your place, getting her to invite you to her place, or a hotel room if that's how you roll. You can use that massage as an excuse to get her in these places, she will totally know what's up, don't let her down. When you have her, kiss, grope, fondle. Do what comes naturally, use that damn body you've been working so hard on!

Lmfao Rune's criticism are legit man. Just follow what he says.

Also @Rune how much do I have to pay to hire you as my coach lmfao?

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~California Love~!

$50 per minuted, not including hefty pompous royalty taxes.

And, you must sing me a song.

lol ya i think Rune is my unofficial coach... thank you guys for the help again. i havent talked to her since thursday. I plan on calling her monday to set something up. In the meantime I have been approaching many other girls, and studying with a girl from one of my classes tomorrow, so im not stuck up on this one girl fyi lol.