Alright, so I had my first date with this girl yesterday, and she seems to really dig me. I make her laugh, and we talk about intersting stuff as well. Thing is, if we do get a relationship I dont think id be able to maintain cuz shed be my first. So im just wondering how i can maintain a relationship. thanks in advance

From what your saying she's obvioulsy digging you. Just remember don't fall for her too early nomatter what! Just keep being yourself and do whatever you want ( go to parties, play video games, go to the movies, hang out with your friends) but make sure you also dedicate some time to her as well and be kinda dangerous and romantic at the same time. By dangerous I mean kinda scare her and what I mean by that is kinda confuse her. Make her be confused about if you really like her or not. This scares her because she's scared about getting played but trust me it'll make her fall in love with you.

Hey man you've gotta take some chances and don't be afraid to. Relationships are things you learn about as you go and if you're with the right chick, she'll let ya fuck up a little. I'm not saying try to piss her off or test her but just do what you think is best. Whatever you do, don't lose yourself and keep doing things you enjoy.

Don't get Oneitis, realize that there are other girls out there as good or better than the girl you are with

Don't let your passion die out as the relationship progresses. Remember that becoming an Alpha, a better guy, etc, is a journey that never ends. You have to always aspire to be better, to improve yourself.

Stay confident throughout the relationship. Don't get into the same basic routine. Get out of your comfort zone often. If you guys never go clubbing, go clubbing. If you never eat at an expensive restaurant, save up and eat at an expensive restaurant. Always challenge yourself, and keep the relationship exciting.

Finally, ALWAYS maintain a confident, Alpha, happy attitude.

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Thing is that were both 16, so i mean going to expensive restaurants, or doing something that involves cash or transportation (cars) im pretty sure im not gonna be able to do.
also, when you say do dangerous things, should i do it as soon as im officially in the relationship? shell probably notice that ive gone compeltely 180 on her, and im guessing that its good, but i dont want you to generalize, i need some specifics. another thing i heard from a buddy of mine is that you should always be mysterious around her, never reveal everything about her. i guess it makes sense, but how do i do that? like, do i not tell her where im from, do i not tell her the music i like? i still dont understand it really.

what your friend meant by mysterious is to keep her "wanting more." You dont have to not tell her where your from or what music you like, to keep her "wanting more" dont show your a needy type. Don't chase after her, make her the one chasing you. And since your not "officially" in the relationship, you should always talk to other girls- friendly or not.

I dont necessarily agree with what has been said about confusing her.

I have been testing out the two seduction models for a while.

1) Take a girl and break her down and then make her think the only way to get back to that level of happiness is with you.

2) Take a girl and make her so much happier with you so she wants to come back to you for more.

Normally i use the first model, and i find is the popular model for new PUAs, negging and jealosy plots etc. It works, but the end result is not as satisfying, that may not make sense right now.

This girl that im seeing right now, when i met her i decided to go with model 2, just straight up direct off the bat, i never really negged her, the teasing i used can hardly be called negs. I, up to this point have been completely honest with being head over heals for her. At the same however i have maintained my manhood (alpha maleness?) and i dont chase. To the girl im seeing i am such a breath of fresh air, she just cant get enough of me and she doesnt have any signs of insecurity or jealousy and trusts me alot, why? because im so honest.

She has once or twice really annoyed me ( i dont have many pet peeves but the ones i do are major) and the loss of rapport she felt was too hard and she came around, she didnt want to lose something so good.

i find playing the sly, sneaky game sets the foundation for a bad relationship, and is the recipe for the nosy girlfriend later on who doesnt want you talking to any other girls.

If you really like her, why would you want to make her feel bad? imagine if that were you. If shes just a random broad u wanna f*** then its a different story.

If you'd like a relationship; take her out a day, for a date. Shouldn't be too hard, go for a picnic, something original. Make some food together and get out to some nice place, talk, - get to know her. I would'nt recomend to escalate too fast if you want a relationship with her, the main thing would be to build a strong connection.

But, if you're inexperienced, i wouldn't recommend to go into a relationship.

I remember my first girl, when i was an AFC,-i used to sit up all night on the phone talking about my problems and what a terrible life i had blablabla.. I told her that sex werent so importaint, cuz she was the best and that i loved her more than anything..

Guess what happend; She tramped all over me, she ignored me, got furious for no reason, and eventually cheated on me.

It was a good experience, in the sense that i learn an importaint lesson; NEVER EVER BE NEEDY!!

But still, if you're inexperienced you'll eventually get your ass whipped... HARD! And that's not an experience i wish that you should have. I'd recommend, for the time beeing that you go out sarging. Get your inner game tight, then read natural game by gambler, and read speed seduction by ross jeffries, then go out, - get some experience, and then eventually go for a LTR if you wish so!!

Best of luck, - Koff out

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