Short story: facebook flirted with this chick i knew a couple of years back after she wrote something on my wall. she was playing along like clay in my hands and i could tell it was on. found out we're in the same city this summer. she shit tested me and told me maybe wed go watch sex & city movie together. i negged her back and said yea right, i think my g'ma watches that show. afterwards i msg her and ask her to txt me her # so we do something fun. and then i say "i'm curious now though. why do a lot of women love to watch movies about love and sex". after that she doesnt reply to me for like a week (though she continues to do stuff on fb). i assume i escalated too quickly and decided to move on. this morning im on fb and i see that she's poked me and she's msgd me a one liner with her # on it (no reply to the question).

my issue is how do i deal with that line? obviously it was a minefield so i dont want to call her and act like it never happened if its making her uncomfortable. so im not sure how to address it. also how soon should i reply in a situation like that? thoughts?

Hmm, I don't think I'd care enough to go back to it.

"Do you like apples? I got her numba, how do you like them apples?"

Don't over think these things, and remember that it's only awkward if you make it awkward.

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don't worry bout it. pretend you never asked it. its not an important question and if you act like its important it will just prove your agenda here.

Throw her in the friend bus and let her work her way out of it.

The shit test about sex and the city is where you really dropped the ball.

If a girl says "you probably watch sex and the city" then say "that's such a samantha thing to say." If you get shit tested DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT defend yourself. EVER.

Why?

Because her opinion and approval of you DOESNT MATTER. If you act like it matters then you are doing the chasing. If you are chasing then she has you. If she has you, she will lose attraction for you.

Attraction is built by getting her to chase you, by doing things such as not messaging her on facebook for a week. She's like "why hasnt he messaged me at all?" then she chases you and gives you her number and a poke. thats how to work it

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