well to be completely honest with you I'm just looking for someone who is looking to hook up. I like to keep my options open an see whats out there love meeting new people an trying new things if your interested or want more pics just let me know if not that's cool to i understand.

Looks fade with time, you need to love the person you are with because eventually we all look like a bag of sh*thaha.

Let me explain what I'm looking for, i think you might like what i have to say.

I used to be all about physical attraction, as almost every guy is trained to be by not only the media, but also how women typically behave with clothes, accessories, and looking amazing to drive us nuts. We men value ourselves by how hot, and how many women we can basically lure in, almost like fishing. Its a confidence thing.

It wasn't until i met my first and only love that i really changed this perspective. I would laugh with her, and party with her, and we were best friends. Joked all the time, nothing was ever serious, we didn't fight, we discussed, and it was heaven falling asleep and waking up next to her. She was also gorgeous because of looks and personality combined. She wasn't beautiful because of makeup and shit, she was beautiful because i loved her.

Now lets talk about sex. Because she was so amazing as a person, i realized how much more i was enjoying my sex life- love=passion=AMAZING connection in bed. Note the fact i said connection. Making out with someone you love during sex, looking them in the eye and saying "this is my baby" to yourself is such a different feeling.

So, me being the guy that i am, i was blown away by what it meant to feel this way- in love. The sex is really what woke me up and told me that i had changed my views.

She and i weren't perfect for each other, but we were close. career, distance, and personality got in the way to a certain degree as we were too different, and it was a mutual heart break when it didn't work out. we tried really hard to make it work but you can't band-aid a broken leg...

Since then, i almost get disgusted by men who do just look for one night stands, and to get really embarrassing, i have told girls to go home when they want to sleep with me on the first night. Especially when they didn't ask for a condom. Not that i said no to sex with all of them but im not proud of that, we all have our needs and alcohol doesn't help decision making haha.

Granted i have had sex without a condom and i love it, but not with some girl who i barely know, and not on the first ****ing night! (if the girl was drunk i understand this, and its another reason i wouldn't wanna take advantage..plenty of things to do other than sex haha) I just wanna stay clean thanks..

So i guess to address your needs, i don't give a sh*tabout how you look, just be cute at least by staying healthy and in shape. i don't judge you by the shape of your face and sh*tit just needs to be sufficient. What i really need is to find that connection with you, and be able to be friends and enjoy talking about anything.

Plus, you need to be able to create a challenge that is more of a game in a relationship. The challenge as you say, or the chase to me, is really what keeps a fire burning in a relationship. To me, sarcasm accomplishes a lot of that because i can tease you and rip on you a bit for fun. But then when i get under your skin, i can come back and be extra nice to "apologize" for being a jerk. What i really did was push you away and then reel you back in, making the dynamic of a challenge in a relationship still exist.

Sorry i said a lot, just wanted to let you know where my head is at