I'm having trouble closing in every respect of the word. I'm in college and the hook up scene is big but I manage to mess up almost every time.

I'll always be talking to a girl, flirting, negging etc. It's all going good but I never get to the point where we kiss. At first I thought it was because of the lack of kino but even with touching (ie: arm around her, touching her shoulder, arm, hair etc), i'm still not getting the go in for the kiss vibe.

I've even managed to make girls want to go to my dorm and stay for the night but still nothing happens. It seems like logistics were a problem. They'll sit in a chair...and i'll end up sitting somewhere else which ends any further physical contact. And I always get a mental block thinking "what if she turns me down? then itll just make for a really awkward situation since she's staying overnight" (assuming her dorm is very far away).

Help?

In most situations, you will have to build it gradually. I saw a video with gambler explaining this, i use it all the time and it works well. Repeatedly use compliance tests, each bigger than the last. When you hug a girl and she lets go, keep your arm around her for a couple of seconds and if she puts her arm around you, keep it there. Kiss her on the top of the head, girls love it and if she is interested she won't say anything. From there, say something in her ear and kiss her on the cheek, and then just go for it. I have used this countless times, and it has never failed on me.