Right, I seem to be having the same problem over and over again.

I can get chatting to girls quite easily in clubs and stuff and after doing a few negs/personality tests I can get their numbers.

Problems happen on day 2s (or when i see them next or start texting them). We can have fun but it never seems to lead to sex.

The line that comes up over and over again is "...but i don't really know you yet/I want to get to know you first". I mean WTF i just want to be in and out of there i'm not looking for a lasting relationship.

Im a nice enough gu but I'm hardly going to tell the one im with, by the way there's 3 other girls im trying to get into bed. (I'm not really a player, but I don't want to be wasting my time with one girl and let all the other girls slip by).

I know some of the girls have been in bad relationships and the others think that all guys are cheats etc etc

So we end up texting, going for bite to eat, going for drinks.....should there be anything else i should be saying or doing?Taking 4 lasses out on dates one after the other is becoming expensive!![/b]

Those are lines you will never stop getting man. Look up stuff on LMR (last-minute resistance) and "anti-slut."

Basically, even if she wants to sleep with you, society makes her feel like she can't just go willingly or she's a slut. So she gives you lines like that as a sort of compelled resistance. This is why you need to seduce her. So she can have the sex she wants to without feeling like she "gave it away."

Search this site and others and you'll find plenty of ways to deal with LMR. There are a lot of methods but I'm a fan of either agreeing with her, ("I know... we're moving so fast, it's crazy!") but then just upping the anti again a minute later, or doing a "freeze out."

Definitely run the LMR stuff. Make her think that you can't help it and that she can be caught up in the moment. But you might also want to try to have the second or third date at a place that you can have sex without relocating. It is much easier getting laid if your (or her) bedroom is a hallway away. (car can be good too)

You can try this one. Ask her to meet you at your place. Then make sure you are still getting ready when she arrives. Invite her in and tell her you will be a minute. Let her look around and get used to being around your place. Don't take so long that she gets bored, but long enough that she can get the lay of the land. Then when you try to bring her home later is not a completely new experience, but a place she is familiar with. If you are really feeling it you can try to hit her up right at your place before getting to dinner/movie/whatever.

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