I'm having trouble closing in every respect of the word. I'm in college and the hook up scene is big but I manage to mess up almost every time.

I'll always be talking to a girl, flirting, negging etc. It's all going good but I never get to the point where we kiss. At first I thought it was because of the lack of kino but even with touching (ie: arm around her, touching her shoulder, arm, hair etc), i'm still not getting the go in for the kiss vibe.

I've even managed to make girls want to go to my dorm and stay for the night but still nothing happens. It seems like logistics were a problem. They'll sit in a chair...and i'll end up sitting somewhere else which ends any further physical contact. And I always get a mental block thinking "what if she turns me down? then itll just make for a really awkward situation since she's staying overnight" (assuming her dorm is very far away).

Help?

Firstly, don't think, just do things, don't be afraid to fail.

Kino can go way further than just putting your arm around her or touching her hair, it's all about building comfort and DHV'ing.

With kino, in my opinion, of course touching is important, another sense that shows your not afraid, but you can play games with kino, my best being Mystery's favourite, the ESP test.

Man, just be bold. Feel that tension, and exploit it. If you don't feel it, create it. You can create tension in a myriad of ways, but one of my personal favorites is simple... silence, + eye contact.

If you guys are getting close and having a nice conversation, speak slowly, pause and look into her eyes. If you can keep her gaze for 3 seconds without her looking away, you looking away and either of you saying a word... you're probably good for a kiss. This is especially the case if she's complied to coming back to your room alone.

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And I always get a mental block thinking "what if she turns me down? then itll just make for a really awkward situation since she's staying overnight"

That's your entire problem right there. It's all you blocking yourself. With all the signs you're describing, trust us, you can kiss her. You just need to believe it.

Remember, it's about you. When you get to that point man, if you want to kiss her then do it. If she doesn't want to it's her missing out on a great night, not you. Sex is not something a woman "gives" a man, that's a myth, it's shared.

And as far as the awkward night thing? I don't think any woman would really respect a man who let her sleep over even though she turned him down... If you set the tone as sensual and she doesn't go for it than there is no reason to have her stick around. If it comes to that either freeze her out if you think you can still have her or let her scram because there's a better one waiting for you tomorrow.

PUA brother whats ur email adress let me send Dicarlos ladder its only 16 pages but it helps how to make kino so easy and actually the girl enjoying it and wanting u just as bad as u want to fuk her

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