just lost virginity. (im 23)

was never a big deal to having it or not having it for me as i was original saving it for the girl i love(d), now that shes gone ive been arguing with myself over the past month wrather i should lose it or not. Wound up fooling around with a girl ive been working on for about a week, one thing let to another and oops, there it went.

wouldnt say im happy or sad about it, but honestly a little dissapointed it wasnt with someone i actually care about.

but o well, ima dog. woof woof

funny thing is not even 24 hours and the ex gets in touch with me for the first time in 2 months (relationship ended in horrible terms, which actually drove me to this site) and now shes in my head again. fuckin bitches i swear.

on a plus side, now that the "hard part" is over, i wont be so timid to progress things further with other girls, so i can literally fuck the ex out of my head...thats a plus

CONGRAAAAATULATION

Congrats!
I was not unlike yourself...had been waiting around for the 'right girl'. Then I realized that a female excuse and im a guy, and in our awkward youth we should bang and get some experience under the belt for future great times.
So I got a call from a girl who likes me...'come over we can hop in the spa'.
Now any other time I'd find myself making excuses to women to not see them for sex.
So I sucked it up, had a few shots, and went over and banged her for a solid 6 minutes...disappointing although we had a 45 min foreplay, I was thinking about me cumming so often that the inevitable happened.
A week later I was banging another girl and went for 45 mins, there was little to no foreplay.
Just getting the right balance when you are inexperienced.
Now since then its been 6 months and im 19 and my confidence has grown and you know what they say, 'practice makes perfect'.
Good luck on your conquest!

im proud*snif*they grow up so fast

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~remember were not just picking up girls.were building a better life.~mystery.

wouldnt know what htats like. one 3 hour session under my belt along with my past "other stuff" over the years, never orgasmed from partner to date ~.~

Cant wait im 28 and I think Im close lost alot of weight and Im lookin pretty good so I think im pretty close to snaggin some poon myself.

ATTA BOI AFF219, and i know holy lol, we all grow up so fast!

Congrats Guys, keeps those skills tight

Well done, as for the ex, don't even give her the time of day.

I can't believe no one has stated the obvious here: What you do now is tell the ex that you "goofed up" and slept with another hot chick. This can only have good results:

1. She gets jealous and tries to get back with you and get the cock as well.

2. She gets pissed and leaves you alone for good.

However, I'm banking on result #1

Ex's and Ex's and its what they should always be.
Let them go find something new, clinging onto damaged goods is just a lack of strength to let go and explore what else is out there.

Yep, 9/10 from experience and what I have seen, 2 ex's back together wont work, something went wrong for them to become an Ex.

Wait, you had sex for 3 hours and didn't come? Are you sure you were doing it right? I mean, I'm sort of athletic and I can only go for like half an hour and I'm exhausted and sweaty afterwards. And sex for three hours is usually pretty hard on a girl, too. Anyway, try a different girl and if you have the same problem, see a doctor or a therapist.