| im new to PUA, practice little by little. Okay, my 1st field report, i try to keep it brief and clear.
I went out last nite, saw a HB6 smoking alone outside the nite club. i just directly went to talk to her, easy opened. even without DHV yet, she started asking me where i m from and blah blah blah first (i took it as IOIs, Rite?). i responded and asked the same questions, and she answered, and then i said i gotta meet up with my friends and went into the bar. After in the bar, i saw she dancing on the dancing floor. anyways, i didnt approach her at this moment, and i opened a few more sets, chatted with different guys and girls.
Then, she came to me and said something about the music, and went out for smoking again. she didnt ask me to go outside, but i just followed her out. this time, when we were outside, i did my DHV, and very limited Kino, because i leaned back to the wall and faced to the street, and she faced me to talk, during the whole time. i was talking all the time and she seemed
to be interested, and involved in the conversation as well. then we went back again.
on our way back, i was stopped by one of my friend, and she went upstairs to dance, so i located her a bit later, and started dancing with her. when i tried to get to close to her,
she said:" i have bf, i dont like guys just jump on me and dance. i hope u r not scared or freaked out" (something similar like that).
i replied: " hahaha, no problem. that's fine. we just have fun. im not scared, but u look like scared."
then, i didnt get physically close to her during dancing, and i stepped out after a bit later.
i went outside with my friends. after we came back, she saw me, and came up to me to grab my hands to dance with her. alright, i jumped in. we have a little bit kino, i spinned her, and she wanted to smoke again, and we went out again with my friend too because we wanted to leave. we talked and my friend was involved in the conversation as well, but this time she did the most talking. when she's ready to go back, we told her we were leaving, and she returned back to me, and talked a bit more, and she said "do u have cell #. you are the cool guy...... blah blah" and i complimented her as well. so i told her my and she txted me her # and good bye. BTW, she was alone last nite in the bar, i think, and she danced all nite except smoking.
Overall, i felt it was unexpected because she said she has BF, and i didnt expect anything after and i wanted to move on as well. Im not sure if this is successful pick up or not because i dont understand why she wants my #? just for "being friends"?
i dont really expect anything to happen even i have her #, but what do i do with this #? contact her or just leave it.
2nd question, how do you guys talk in the noisy niteclub? especially when doing DHV, i need to talk a lot. i found i opened so many sets and it;s hard to keep DHV going on in such environment.
english is not my mother tongue because i m living overseas, so i have to use english to talk to the girls. and i found that's one of blocks for me to pickup. also, i need to work on my DHVs. i found mine might be less entertaining. Kino is missing a bit, i could do more than that.
anyways, hope you could drop a comments. any comment is appreciated. Thanks!
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