Okay so ive hooked up with alot of girls recently. And I mean i am attracted to good girls. i dont go for the ones all dolled up and slutty looking.
I go for 8+HB, but that have a good girl look and attitude. And most of them are 18-23. Now i admit to having gone for a few sluts when im drunk and its easy. and most of them openly admit to having multiple partners.
But soooo many of the girls swear theyve only had 5 partners. or 10 partners depending on age. and they swear by this. and they do look innocent and young. but am i being foolish in believing this? or do you think that 85% of these chicks are actually 'good girls' and not sluts.
Just seems to me that they all say, i dont usually do this, ive only ever had 1 or no 1night stands. I mean they seem to be honest. but is that just them playing me? or am i just damn good and naturally atract good girls?

I realize this is hard to answer, as u dont know me or them... but in others experience??? just out of curiosity.
Thanks guys

I thought you might like a girls opinion on this one...

I am 23 years old and generally a "good girl" as you describe it. I have gone through my party girl stage (ages 18 - 21) but have now settled down with a man I could spend the rest of my life with.

A lot of girls (well me at least!) prefer to only sleep with guys who we are actually in a relationshiop with. I mean, yes, during my party days, I did have a couple of one night stands but the majority of people I have slept with have been boyfriends or guys I was seeing and they were repeat business. The main reason being, I find sex pretty special and an emotional connection as well as a physical one. Therefore, I dont want to give it up to anyone. But like I said there have been a couple of one night stands which I regret but they felt right at the time but the majority of one night stands i had were whn I was in an emtional state and not thinking straight.

Anyway, I hope this helps you a little bit. You could be actually just really good at attracting the good girls although some of them just might be lying in order to not seem like sluts and because they dont want to be looked down on. I mean in society, a woman who sleeps with many men is considered to be a "bad girl" or a slut whereas guys can put it about as much as they want and they are a hero - whats up with that????

"Player".
Bullshit.
Good that you defined your demographic.
You're judgemental, and your a blabbermouth.
So far, I dislike you.

Yet I continue...
You listen to girl's horseshit lies?
Ohboy.
Did I mention you're on 24/7 thinking mode. I'm calling you out on bullshit.
You're full of shit dude. You didn't get with any of these chicks. You probably TALKED to them, but they got uncomfortable because you were talking about how many partners they've had, and they probably inferred you viewed them as sluts, and probably said "I need to see my friends".

Don't fuck with my 3rd eye broski.
Lying sack of shit. Be honest.
You suck at lying.
I know enough about you from what you've said to determine that you constantly fail miserably with women.


Rewrite your post, telling the TRUTH.


...and stop THINKING so much. It kills your yet-to-be-developed game.

Thank you very much girlfriendofapua. that does help and puts it into perspective a bit. and i kinda figured that was the case. Still not sure ut im just gunna go with that they are good girls. albot of them, I know its alot bigger of a deal for girls cuz yes, society looks down on a slut. but as the comedian jim jefferies puts it, thats because its easy to be a slut, to be a slut u just have to be there. to be a player you have to be charming and have game etc. he goes on and on, a really good skit, but hes got a really good point.

As for you Rune. you havnt a clue what your talking about. I never spoke a word of a lie. whats with all the attacking? i know i havnt mastered the game, i just live in a holiday destination where its so easy to get with girls it isnt even funny. not that i need your validation. But any one of my friends could vouch that do quite well for myself. i mean not every good girl i bring home will go all the way. But for the most part, i get laid alot, like it or not. so go back to your parents basement and go wank one while you think about all the beautiful swedes im getting with.

oh and rune, when you said ' you listen to their horse shit lies, oh boy'

Thats all i was asking. are they lies? or do you really think their good girls? my guess is its half and half. but their damn convincing.

A lot of people say that to me.
...then, after a while, they find out what I said was TRUE.

Not because I said it, but because the FIELD shows them, in spades, reality...

No attacking, just saying how it is.

You come from a frame of thought. The following gives you credence:
If I lived in a "holiday destination", I would have gotten laid by 3, as well as everyone else on this site. Even a total social retard can score on a vacation week down at Miami, or Brazil, or any other holiday hotspot. All you need is alcohol and ...yeah, that's it.

When girls are NOT on vacation, they play non-responsive anti-sluttery. They WANT to fuck, but society's bullshit prevents them from doing so. Sadness.
Who cares about MY validation?

All you need to know is I'm right, and the only reason you're scoring so many chicks is:

1)You live in a vacation spot, which is great shit for you.
2)You're probably an above-decent looking guy.

Move to any major metropolitan area, and try to pull a girl out of a bar. You'll realize it's no different to pick up a chick from a city bar than a vacation outing; the only difference being a typical girl within a metropolitan city area is with her crew of friends, and 100x more obstacles impede the path of what's otherwise the same game played in vacation land.

You're "good", but not that good.
Your friends can kiss my dick.
All I care about is clarifying YOUR questions, whether you like me or not.

What I say simply works.
That's usually the case. If it were that easy, neither of us would be here.
Because you're banking on vacation vibe; ANY ASSHOLE can get laid during a girl's vacation time AWAY FROM JUDGEMENTAL SOCIETY.
Excuse me while I remind my sweet overprotective mother to bring me some milk and cookies to my evil basement lair while I jerk off to jizzhut, like the looooser I am.

(Realize I'm here for you, but not to be your friend. I put things in perspective, and let you grow from it).


If I impart one final word: Don't THINK about what I just told you.

Go with it. If you didn't like something I said, don't dwell on it. Either accept or reject the information.

You'd do well to accept it though; usually, when I leave my evil basement lair full of World Of Warcraft memorabilia and stolen girls panties, I go out to the field and, you know, do what I gotta do.



And now that you mentioned "Vacation", dude, girls there just want to fuck.
They're not looking for anything serious. If they DO have a vibing conversation, it's simply to lead to sex. VIBE. Think about it.

Excuse me while I play with my rare plutonium action figures I got from Comicon...

hahaha rune that was a hillarious post. your not that bad of a guy after all. just when someone calls me a liar, it gets to me for some reason. but thanks for the reply, i appreicate it.

And yah your totally right, and i know, vacation destinations everyone just wants to fuck. and yes, alchohol, buckets in particular, and good looks is what gets me laid. Im also really chatty and friendly, but i know trying to isolate a chick in any metro area would be extremley dificult. and i know if i was in a city in the US i would be screwed.

I grew up in a small town, where everyone knows everyone. so opening has always been the hardest part for me, but here there are so many situational openers at the beach parties its just too easy. you should get out here one of these years. ive racked up more numbers in the past year than the rest of my life combined.

Anyway, enough banter. was just trying to figure out if these chicks just say their not sluts because thats what they want me to believe. or if a large majority of chicks dont usually do the 1 night stand thing. But after the last 3 girls this week ive kinda come to a conclusion on my own.
Cheers tho. and good luck to ya out there.

Ill take one down for yah tonight.

I get you. Any attack on a person's character gets them heated.
You learn well, young turtle. =p
Not necessarily screwed; you'll just have to put 10x more effort.

Think of it this way: You're playing 1v1 basketball; the first game is against an equal opponent in your area; the second game is against an olympic NBA all star in the States.

Regardless of the opponent, basketball is basketball; the difference is that:

1)To play an NBA all star, you need to first network to even get 5 minutes to LOOK at the all-star. At least your neighborhood competitor is just that; a neighbor.

2)The NBA all star is armed to the teeth with sickening conditioning skills, vast experience in the big leagues, and the coaching of masters. Your neighborhood competitor, at best, is just like you.

3)The NBA all star can probably own you without hesitiation, the neighborhood guy will put up as much effort as you could possibly hold up.

Girls in the metro area arent necessarily difficult, but to fuck them, you must disarm their bullshit societical...bullshit. It's literally bullshit hurdles and fiery rings you need to jump through.

...but, as long as you stay in the moment, you leap through them like nothing. That is A good secret well hidden.
Dude, at a beach party, flashing a girl your cock is considered a master opener.

You're got good play to fuck around with.
Believe me, I'm hungry to go on vacation. $$$ is rather tight right now, but the intent is 110% there.
They say that because they don't want YOU to think THEY'RE sluts.
...but they usually are.

Nothing wrong with that; as long as she doesn't get pregnant; who gives a fuck?
I've realized lately that's all they want, moreso than us guys.
Good man.
And to you as well.

Make those good girls go baddd.

As to Rune... I appreciate the time you take to break down peoples responses. Your take on peoples posts are enjoyable. Keep it up!

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