Hey guys, I'm in need of someone that can clarify qualification for me.

Adam lyons said in a dvd I have that... "anything that she does is an investment that you are going to magnify with qualification and that qualification is the "means to magnify an investment and make it bigger.

I did some thinking and came up with situations in my life that have happened very recently where I could of used this if i understood it better.

E.g. my co-worker that is vibing on me a bit asks me "how do you spend your time?" I just replied regularly and told her. After hearing what AFC adam said I realized that what she had done was considered investment. So my basic question is what could I have done in this situation to make that investment she had just made bigger. Also if you guys could provide other examples that'd be great, and some general clarification on the concept of qualification.

Sorry I posted this in general already, but I believe it is now in the proper forum.

Hey mate, I had a problem recently and it was pointed out I need to get her to qualify more so I'll give it a shot.

Qualification is as you said to get the girl to invest more in the relationship you are creating, for instance, I have been meeting girls on nights out # and K closing then having them flake out after a bit of texting. My thinking is that I'm not getting them invested enough, since really I'm just some stranger they meet and don't know to much about.

So my thinking is next time I'm out start to qualify her, so she thinks I'm not just hitting on any random girl, I have a high standards and she needs to show her value for me to stay interested. Im not going on a set structure but would probably ask a few questions like, "Tell me something interesting about yourself so?" or "Are you adventurous?" or "whats exciting about you?".

Just writing this I think I'd work in one of these like this;
(Before leaving or going for more drinks)

"I realise I don't really know you, com'on you gotta tell me something interesting about yourself so I remember you in the morning/later on"

or

"Hey, before I go, impress me so I remember you tomorrow, are you adventurous/spontaneous...yeah? tell me something interesting you've done"


So something like that i think would class as qualifying, it makes her think, well really this guy is cool and doesn't just go for any girl, I must be special or something, need to hang on to this guy and impress him.

See what I mean?

EDIT: Forgot to answer your example.

How do you spend your time?

Maybe say how you consider yourself spontaneous/adventurous/like to challenge yourself, then give an example such as (Rock climbing/skydiving/Karate or whatever you do) then ask her something like "So what trouble do you get up to out of this place? tell me you cook, I love girls that cook" or something similar.

E.g. my co-worker that is vibing on me a bit asks me "how do you spend your time?" I just replied regularly and told her. After hearing what AFC adam said I realized that what she had done was considered investment. So my basic question is what could I have done in this situation to make that investment she had just made bigger. Also if you guys could provide other examples that'd be great, and some general clarification on the concept of qualification.

Thanks for the reply bro. def helped out.

Yeh great post Phate I have realised investment is probably the key lacking in my game also.
Thanks to your pointers I will be employing them in regular conversation.
Thanks!