| Yes I can, your 3 Openers can be any standard canned openers that you will find on any seduction site, thou some of these are extremely out dated, I just use proximity (hang close with my friends or at the bar getting a drink and listen) and then use a situational opener (something seen or heard to start talking to them)
Your Qualification Statement can be the standard MM "what else have you got going for you apart from your looks" thou I qualify differently, I qualify on anything that comes up thats relevent in the conversation to qualify, like she says she can do the splits, speak a differnt language or something like that I'll tell her to show me
The Heart Melter, I don't bother with unless something comes up that reminds me of something that happened in my life, it has to be conversationally relevant you can't just be talking about mad parties you've been to and then blast out a sad story, but I heard El Topo talk about a good one, thou he has his game totally worked out so he guides a conversation in ways that his stories work. Ok its about his friend wearing a stupid Burger king watch and how everyone teases the guy for it, but it actually turns out it was the last thing his best friend gave him before he died so he wears it out of memory.
2 Routines which set the standard sexual frames. ye'old classics
Rings on fingers
Originally Posted by CaptainJack
"Did you know that what fingers you have rings on says stuff about your personality?"
I point to the right pinky ring and say, "that means you are good at keeping secrets."
HB: "i tell my brother everything."
CJ: "just your brother?" that's ok. that's like a diary, plus he's family."
CJ: "and your right ring finger, that means when you find the right person and you're attracted (pointing to myself), you become sexually aggressive"
HB: "yessssssss!"
Then, I look at my left middle ring and say, "This means I'm not judgmental."
HB: "mmmmmmm...."
Here's how I've been doing it lately in A2,C1 or mini-isolation.
I'll look at the HB's hand and say, "hmmm..."
HB: "what? what?"
CJ: "You can tell stuff about people by which fingers they wear their rings on"
CJ: *look away and go silent - this is to bait her to invest in the convo*
HB: "tell me!" or "what do mine say???"
Most girls will have at least two to 3 rings on their fingers. This is all BS but I like to keep the pinky finger the "keeps secrets" finger and the right ring finger as "sexually aggressive when you find someone you like" finger then I'll say that the left ring finger (i.e. marraige finger) means you are sexually submissive (which makes sense because you DID get married - ha ha).
CJ: "Wearing a ring on your pinky means you are good at keeping secrets. That's why you pinky swear and why mafia guys wear pinky rings."
If she doesn't have a pinky ring on I say, "Damn, we'll have to pinky swear before we share deep secrets..." *smile*
HB: "blah, blah"
CJ: * i'll look at her other ring and it is usually either an index finger or the right ring finger for some reason * "And, this one means that when you find someone you are really attracted to (sneakily pointing to self with my thumb) you feel comfortable getting sexually aggressive with this person (again pointing to myself)"
Right here, its important to NOT LET HER TALK. Because she might try to start qualifying herself as NOT being a slut or being marriage material or whatever because she thinks you want a prim and proper girl like that. If SHE does get that out then you are going to have to go REALLY DEEP in comfort and rapport later (so don't make it hard on yourself, don't let her make a peep).
So roll right into the last one. Point to one of your rings (remember it can't be a finger that you've already used on her so you may need to adjust your ring before this) and say:
"When someone wears a ring on this finger (pointing to your ring) it means they are NOT judgemental. They don't have all of the HANG-UPS about life and relationships that most people do."
Then, later throughout the convo when sexual comments start coming out I (subtly) play with that ring once or twice.
Strawberry Fields
At some stage about 5 or 10 minutes in tell her she seems fun and you want to give her the Strawberry Fields Test.
You: “So you're walking along and you come across a strawberry field. How high is the fence around it?”
Her: “Ummm….4 feet.”
You: "Hmm....(Look at her like your unsure of her) Ok you sneak inside. How many strawberries do you eat?"
Her: "ummm 6"
You: "Wow! I'd never be able to take you home to mom!"
(she'll look at you like "omg" or something like that)
You: "And last, what happens if the farmer comes out?"
Target: "What about him?” or "I'd run away" what ever
You: humourously look at her like she a bad girl "Ok, here's what it all means. The fence means you have high goals and high aspirations. The strawberries stand for your sexual
appetite and yours was big lol most people say one or two! you said 6!"
You: "The farmer means you don't care what anyone thinks, she does what she wants when she wants to"
Note: if she says she eats only one or two strawberrys, Just say
most girls don’t eat any
And if she says sorry or something like that say it means she rather be descreet about things and hates anyone finding out and interfering her business, then you can say "thats the same one I choose at the end too, I hate people interfering in my business so I just keep my mouth shut, espectially when it comes to girls"
You don't have to use both routines, one will be enough and the rest is just stardard conversation/being yourself and you keep things alive with a little teasing and push pull game
Your Standard TimeBride Statement is your day two/date, you want to talk about it before you get her number like "I know this mad bar, it stays open till 9 in the morning if you want I'll take you there some night" or something like that, but any day 2 will do as long as its good and shes liken it, get her to agree first then get the number, if you look at the video I found with AFC Adam in it you'll see him doing and talking about this kind of thing
Standard Pull Statement. This is something like "damn its too early to stop partying, I wanna keep going, I haven a blast, what are you at later" based on her answer "lets go to yours then/your friends" or "because I may go back to mine to listen to some music and drink somemore"
Hope this helps, all credit to Captian Jack for this stuff (again these are just my notes and what I've learned to be the best working for me after filtering through tonnes of shite, you can apply this to any system thou personally I go with the AFC Adam style of game as I find its more normal and natural thou I don't think of any form of structure I just calabrate acordingly as I escalate) _________________ no1-introduction-vt66607.html My introduction has links to all my other posts
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