ok . im in grade 11 , and she is in grade 10 . I`ve seen her around in the hall ways , the libary . She is hot , but my tastes are unique and I can tell she wouldn`t be in such high demand for other guys ,so it is a reasonable goal .

Anyways at lunch walking with my good friend , i notice she was in head of us with a group of friends . I told my friend her name and told him i thought she was cute. he didn`t think so though. He said he would hook me up but hasn`t talked to her in a long time and wouldn`t all of a sudden start
Anyways than , he went on to say that she USED to have a HUGE crush on him a year or 2 back. And I noticed when we walked back into the school we happened to see her ,She gave him a look like she still liked him or something. I also notice she never looked at me at all and i was right beside him. He is a pretty fly guy though , no homo.

So , if i were to add her on facebook she would see him all on my profile and would probably make me look good .

So i was thinking , im not in any classes with her , rarely see her . I could fumble around on some bullshit try to open her some how around school but i had to look at where i had my best odds and that was :

Add her on facebook . Msg Her on Chat when i see her on and say something like `Sorry For the random add , but I`ve seen you around and I think your really cute and wouldn`t mind meet you `. Any sugg of what i should say?

This is how my sister boyfriend met her and it worked for him . I know this is questionable but it`s probably my best bet . what do you think ?


P.s Im also taking in to consideration the fact that this wouldn`t work with older women because they are constanly being approach but in highschool noone is confident enough so this would stick out more and seem more significant .

is this the same line your sister's boyfriend used? and did your sister's boyfriend do this in highschool or college?

No this isn't the exact line my he used ..I don't remember it. i just remebered that .He was in HS ..and my sister has a MUCh higher status than this girl .

but i was thinking about saying ...

"Sorry for the random add , but it's just that..

and then pause and see if i get her on her heels a bit before i just spill it all at once .

No this isn't the exact line my he used ..I don't remember it. i just remebered that .He was in HS ..and my sister has a MUCh higher status than this girl .

but i was thinking about saying ...

"Sorry for the random add , but it's just that..

and then pause and see if i get her on her heels a bit before i just spill it all at once .

Your P.S. is funny i dont know what highschool u went to but I was fly as shit had big time confidence and but their are a few problems with highschool, one status matters big time and will give u alot of what u don't have for example if a ugly ass dude is popular he probably can have a chance at alot of chicks just because of his status... other thing about high school game u gotta be slick u see pretty much same chicks all the time, and if u sleep with someone word travels fast.. u can be the hoe really quick if u don't play it right... BUT back to the main point... the facebook add situation is a bad idea it comes off as creepy, and low value... its kind of like why didn't this guy just meet me in person... so either do one of the two things one have your friend introduce u that she knows or get the balls and introduce yourself - but overall I think u need more practice and need to study the game more ... so go out and practice game.

I still think this isn't a bad idea , and i plan to go through with it . You say this comes off as low value , desperate , etc. I'm not denying that . Let me explain something , there are 2 , 000 kids at my highschool grades 10-12. You are saying i should open her in person ? I think she will understand that the halls are always packed , she is always with some people , i rarely see her . I think going up to her saying " hey i think your cute " is less typical than doing it over facebook .
And If this does work , and she is interested I will have no promblem meeting up in person . I wouldn't tell her im nervous . I would go head strong about it.
Not to mention my facebook profile does demonstrate high value ..there are some cool pictures and football players on my wall .

by the way , if this doesn't work oh well atleast i wouldnt be wondering . I have other girls to turn to ..not like i have everything riding on this .

But lets just say: You DO go up to her.
Wouldnt that make you stand out of the crowd?
And i understand your concern, its crowded and everything but you could take the time and wait for the perfect moment?
She greets your friend? Well then he could also talk to her. Introduce you, and take things from there..
Just thinkin (:

hey guess what guys!! i did the facebook thing i opened her by saying sorry for the random add , but i seen you around school blah blah blah .

I couldn't have gotten better results...I ended up talking to her for over an hour . This big getting to know you convo!!!
and then i finally asked her if she would meet me at school sometime and she said
Yeah , If you see me in the halls just say Hi .

and it's been a day .I didn't see her at school today and talked to agian after school joking how i kept missing her .and then she even gave me interest by asking how my day went!!

but the if you see me in the hall just say hi kinda got me trippin! i was expected her to say meet me here at lunch or something .
I would prefer that so it's not spontatous and i can kinda plan on what to say and the sitatuion would be quiet one on one . Soo Please help me!! what do i do when i see her!!