i was recently "studying" with a girl i met a day ago, our first actual face to face talk. lots of IOI's, i think i showed too much interest, but its all good. now heres the issue, how can i not show too much interest even when i am, or is that ok?

i started some kino escalation, but it wasnt all that great, brought up sex in a c& f way and it died out somewhat quick. for some reason i knew i could had kissed closed, but i didnt. why didnt i kiss close? she threw all sorts of IOI's, was funny, oftarble with me and some of my kino. had a great conversation, lots of DHV, negs, attraction grew as well, but not fast enough i beleive.

how can i increase the attraction building phase, the comfort stage, and how can i improve the seductive stage with kino, and most important, how can i be sure sure sure sure she wants a kiss and how should i deliver it? any advice is greatly appreciated.

I believe that if she has gone on a date with you, she wants to kiss you as long as you don't screw anything up. By screwing up i mean showing lower value than she expected.