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PostPosted: Thu Apr 22, 2010 9:10 pm 
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Hi guys!
The HB from my Triumphant post was not returning my calls so I sent her a text message saying. Note: This all happened yesterday.

Me: What’s up, u thinking of me? :wink:
Her: I’m sorry to say, no. You’re a great guy, but I’ve started dating someone and I don’t think we should go out again. Sorry. Good luck with everything.
Me: Cool. Just remember me & have fun with the new guy :D
Her: Thanks

So is there anyway to recover or just cut her like I planned to do?
Was this a shit test that I failed?
Me and my wing decided that we had no real answer so, I turn to you guys.

Thanks guys for the help in advance.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 22, 2010 10:09 pm 
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If you are interesting in pursuing this girl, you'll probably want to not talk to her for a couple of weeks, then send her a message that says you just want to hang out. Make it very innocent. No sexualized interest, pure friendship. LJBF her. Hang out one time using non-cosing game (i.e. only talk, kino, etc. Subliminal gaming) to make her feel comfortable. Then hang out a second time, and go for the close.

Just an idea. Anyone else got something different?

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 24, 2010 9:22 pm 
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That’s a better idea then I had. I simply decided to cut her but I will give it a try and up date my status on the forum. To answer you I don’t fell any real way to this girl. It’s just that she is the girl that gave me my first Day 2 using game tactics and strategies. I would like to keep her if possible but it’s no big deal if I lose her. I will just game on and push to get my game stronger.

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You lost this one. Not enough attraction. Regardless of is she is actually seeing someone or just lying to you she doesnt wanna see you again.

Why chase after this one when you can get a new one tonight?

In other words, stop wasting your time and NEXT!

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Forget her, just learn where it went wrong and move on. Your not particularly interested in her so don't go to the effort of trying to get her.

Only thing I would suggest is actually do send her a message in a few weeks as Tal0n suggests. Dont spend anything more than a few minutes on it. The only thing she is good for now is seeing what happens when you text a chick 2 weeks after she told you she's got a new guy, in other words see her as the chance for practice.


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Alright I got the general idea of just using this experience to better my game. I will try the text message idea to see what will happen. It’s only a text and the worst thing that can happen is no reply. I will always keep gaming and pushing past my limits.

Thanks for the help Guys. GAME ON 8)

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you're over it. at least wait a couple weeks, she shut you down pretty good haha itme to move on


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I did a kamikaze mission after the two week period and got a response. Here it is

Me: How’s life going?
Her: It’s pretty awesome. How are you doing?
Me: About 2 enter this karate class
Her: Cool. Any job news?
Me: Not really, had a few interviews, keepin my fingers crossed, I’ll txt u later, have 2 survive this class :wink:
Her: Have Fun!
Me: Survived another day & learned some new things.

No response after that. I will keep you guys posted. Thanks again!

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Man, you shouldn't have responded after your class. I would have let her wonder how things go because you said you'd text, plus after how she was some time ago, she seems a joker.


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So is there anyway to recover
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Please take this as me trying to help you:
Me: How’s life going? What kind of question is this? So boring. It looks like you really don't know what to say. It has no call to action, it doesn't spark any attraction at all. it's over-used and plain boring
If you haven't seen her in a long while, I would try something like, "so what have you been up to, married with 8 kids yet?"

Me: About 2 enter this karate class Why would she or anyone care about your karate class??
If she doesn't respond with anything i can hook, I would continue with something like "Where are you taking me next week" or "When are we getting together this weekend." Both of these already presume the important part, and leave her with a choice that doesn't really matter much.

Her: Cool. Any job news?
Me: Not really, had a few interviews, keepin my fingers crossed, I’ll txt u later, have 2 survive this class :wink: Again, no one cares about your interviews in this context. She is only asking a boring question because you started a boring conversation.
I would continue with "We're going to grab a cup of something delicious and make friends. What's a good night for you this week."

Her: Have Fun!
Me: Survived another day & learned some new things.Don't be afraid to let her have the last word or leave her hanging. it's perfectly acceptable to not respond


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