so ill try to simplify this story..

meet this hb8 last october she was diggin me we would hang out in groups some weekends and a make out would be as far as i would get. she would play lots a games and tease me..like tell me to come over then change her mind and say shes busy which she does have a kid to take care of. anyways got tired of the games went bout my ways hittin up other girls..

months go by she texts me again sayin whats up and she made a mistake and would like to basically start seeing me again aka dating..anyways always asks me to hangout she more assertive about it never really make time cuz of the games she played in the past. ended up hangin out with her once at her place nothin really happened jus chilled

anyways the other night go to this grad party. talk to her privately for a while not tryin to mack on her jus buildin up kino escalation and being cocky-funny and jus havin a good time. turns out she really cool to talk to and chill with. but then we go back to my house one thing leads to another and were half naked and i say u want me to grab a condom..she says no...things die out. i say whats wrong, whats the deal.. she says its not u its me..i dont want to go fast. she has done this on previous ocassions before but not this hot and heavy so she kinda left after that ending it in a weird limbo....

so my question is what should i do? text her? dont text her? jus keep playin it cool? i like her..but dont see any future relationship cuz of kid but fuck i really jus want to hit that! idk y im gettin so far then getting thrown out! any suggestions

thanks guys!!

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Freeze out on her LMR dude.

Escalate her hard until the point where she says no, don't be the one to ask if you need a condom, just have it ready near you. Where she says no is where you come in, either you say a) I've been in a relationship not too long ago and you're right but we shouldn't be doing this, followed by a kiss. b) just externally comply with her, don't act pouty or dissapointed or angry, it never works. I would just turn on the lights, flip on the tv and be like you know what, you're right, you're not a sex toy, I shouldn't be doing this and kill the mood (ish), then it'll throw her off because you two were having fun, and her saying no turned you off, therefor it'll make her want to please you again, and to her, her fun just got cancelled. Where she thought she had control of the situation and how far it goes just got reverted to you.

ya kinda did act disappointed..she left bout 10 min after..think i should call an say sorry for tryin to use u as a sex toy or jus leave it alone?

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Yeah don't act dissapointed. Remember, you have to remain calm in every situation.
I don't know man, honestly I guess I'd just leave it alone, because apologizing is AFC. Honestly I've never found myself in this situation. I guess I'd call and apologize without really apologizing, set up another day/date with her and then redo. Remember, timing is key. Where you messed up is asking to bring the condom. Let something like that escalade itself and let her be the one asking you if you have the condom. You don't want her to get the vibe that you're sole purpose is to fclose her. Yes you want to be sexual/sensual, but you don't want to be a creeper lol.

And another thing about women with kids, they're easy, yet they're looking for a guy to take care of the girl so you have an obstacle to work around. Just make her feel special and comfortable for the time that she's with you and things should just unravel itself.

ive always asked the girl if i should grab a condom this is the only time is hasnt worked!! so jus let it escalate further?

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Yeah dude, and maybe those other girls didn't mind. But idk, I would usually escalate the girl enough to make her ask it.