So basically i have a problem with being responsive when i get ioi's from a chick, its really annoying me, as i fall into a situation where a girl is showing the interest and i never do anything because i freeze up.

So the other night i go out with my mate lets call him JJ. Before we go out he tells me some girl friends of his, three of them of are gona join us and he tells me about one of the girls and that she's seriously hot while the other two were about 6's. Anyway we meet them and yes she's is about a HB9. So were in the pub and i mean... i really didn't have a proper conversation with the HB9 but i negged her a few times while in group conversations, so i didn't really get to single her out and chat and that was it and it seemed to build some attraction between us, so through out the night we keep eye contact randomly but im always too pussy to say anything.

Later on as we go to a club me and JJ are chatting in the smoking area and she comes over and ruffles my hair to get my attention and i stand there like a vegetable and carry on talking to JJ, i mean i shouldve done something. So yea she stays with us and i stand there while JJ and her are chatting about stuff, then she randomly grabs my jacket and pulls it round herself while leaning back into me, i was in shock and just stood there didn't do anything, i froze up , and because i didnt respond she quickly just walked off, thats when i left to go home. Im probably gona go out with this group again at some point soon, maybe next weekend. Is it too late to show im interested, and what should i have done when she grabbed my jacket and wrapped it around herself?

There is such thing as trying to act too cool. Like DHV but taken way too far where you give her absolutely zero attention when should give her some. I used to do the same thing all the time when I first started college. Looking back I think it was really a confidence issue. I didn't know what to do and I was scared to fuck up in front of my friends. You really have to just let go and display your attraction to her. Being cool and mysterious is one thing but when you overdo it to the point where she thinks you aren't sexual... well, thats no good.

I would've probably started by saying something like: "I usually charge girls 50 cents a minute to cuddle with me, but you're a cutie so I'll let it go for free."

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Thanks for the advice man. I get exactly what your saying about acting too cool
i always do that, i think it can work to a certain extent with really hot chicks because they are thinking to themselves ' why isn't he interested?' but when they start to try to get your attention then give them some.

I like the cuddling line.
What do you think should be my next plan of action when i see her. Just show interest? show her im sexual? she seems interested in me physically even though we hardly spoke

Be kool still, use some kino, talk!!!

Use ESP, the number game being mine and a lot of people's favourite. Whether you guess right or wrong, it turns into a laugh.

Just practice more. Talk to girls, be more open while remaining cool.
Don't worry about this one girl, there are plenty of hot girls out there. To get one girl, you need to be able to get all the girls.
Or, you could built in some automatic response: Girl leans into you -> Put your arm around her shoulder. After that, you can continue gaming her, but this one will probably make things so much easier.

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Good advice by bits. Always gives good advice, so take note!

Hey thanks for the feedback Chelios and Bits. I was out last night and she was there, good night all around but didn't talk to her much at all as she turned up really late, i said hello, general chit chat but she seemed to be in an odd mood yet later on through the night as i was working some sets i always caught her looking over. I never capitalized on this but oh well. Like you say Bits, its only one girl and i was busy gaming other hot chicks.