Well, to save time i am going to sum this up quickly.

Friday afternoon. A shopping mall.

Since i was never really into day game i wasn't really in the mood to sarge, i just headed down with my friend to relax.

He caught up with his girlfriend and her friends, since i just thought of this new game plan i wanted to field test i thought 'what the hey' and started with some material. It worked fantastically, eventually, the whole lips mm away, random climbing on each other to get possesions back etc. You know how it is.

The thing is, i never really took group tactics into it, my natural game is to simply flirt with any girl that is there once i get all the right signs.

Long story short her friend did not like me at all. This is a steriotype 'nerd' girl who was shocked i didn't know who dr who was. Anyway, her bitch shield could have frozen the tiles at my feet. So, a short girl with a crazy fashion sense and enjoys shows like dr who and red dwarf (extensively)

Perhaps it could have been the fact that the target was in a heavy 2 year relationship, and stating it did not stop us. And i did not isolate her either. Though the obstacle did leave with my friend's girlfriend at one point.

But that was just a fun flirt, my question is, what about me is she so guarded against? I hate to admit it, but, i'm lost on this one.

What should I have done? Or if i see her again what should i do? I need to get this group dynamics under control. But strong nerd types? Sarging these days is seriously getting more challenging.

I think i just found my game flaw. Guys. Help.

Im a bit confused so did she cock block you completely or did you still have chance I get lost at the point where she was trying to classify you with the Dr. who question..

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Oh no, i could have made out with the girl in front of her face (but let's face it, it is much more fun teasing/building sexual tension)

She just clearly didn't like me. At all. Which is kind of a big deal for me.

So i just want to know what i did wrong or what i needed to do. Pretty much the group would be seperated into the nerdgirl and my friend, the targets friends etc, and me and the target outside (the girl in the heavy relationship) pretending to make out/stare into each other.

I'm just saying, this nerdgirl was a complete bitch whenever i talked to her. I just want to know how i couldv'e changed that. Did she think i was a player? Or do i act too alpha? I don't know what her problem was! I doubt there is someone on this forum who knows the answer, actually. No harm trying though.

Oooooohh alright now i see where your coming from. Well there isnt no tru straight answer to this heres a few solutions

1. the girl you could of made out with could open here nerd freind up to you if she likes you enough

2. Or you can neg the obstacle and then reward her for good behavior and build some type of friendship


other than that theres not much you can do. In my opinion you shouldnt care about a obstacle especially when the target is into u. If the target is her real friend the nerdy girl will end of having to like you.

But im curious on how you got the target to like you without the obstacles concent because if this nerdy chick didnt like you i would suspect she would cock block lika her life depened on it.

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Well the target goes to the same course as my friends girlfriend, while the object went to the same school as her last year. So i don't know how well they actually know each other. But pretty much that group was all connected with my friends girlfriend (i set them up, so she likes me enough)

So i guess the actual object would be my friends girlfriend, but she expects this sort of thing from me, she wasn't exactly stoked about me swooping in on her friend, but she didn't stop it (though she did split us up a few times) thats just me not isolating the target though. She did warn me though 'this one is in love, you leave her alone' so i did not kiss her... (turns out failing to actually kiss her was extremely teasing, and fun as hell, try it some time)

It's just the fact that this nerdtype girl didn't like me, i mean, isn't pick up about being able to attract all types of personalities? I guess it's really a question for a phsycologist.

I did try some basic negging (not consciously) but i suppose i can try that, i guess i'm mainly asking for a personality skin i should be wearing.

Oh, and the targets boyfriend is a complete nerd, too scared to touch her (maybe the nerdgirl met him and likes him? Thus not liking me cutting his lunch?) It's tough!