Hello all, this is my first post here. I'm not a PUA but I'm trying to learn from this forum. Just by reading here my general attitude has improved overall, which puts me in a bit of a good mood. Anyway, here's my question: Does being fat or too skinny ruin your chances with a girl? Can you still run good game if you are overweight, but not necessarily ugly? I'd love to hear some responses because I find this interesting.

Welcome to the forums

Anyways, my thoughts on weight are that it matters, but it wont make or break you. For instance, I'm pretty in shape (although I was pretty skinny growing up) and I've been told I look good but I had all kinds of trouble getting girls up until college. Then I've got cousins and friends who I have no problem calling chubby or even slightly overweight who have gotten some truely beautiful women.

Basically, a nice body and good looks are deffinitely an advantage, but plenty of average looking guys get above average women. If your game is sharp and you're comfortable in your own skin you'll do fine.

I've seen some fatass doods with bangin hotties. And on the contrary I've seen some skinny, tall/lanky guys score really hot chicks too.

As for myself, I'm average/slightly chubby gut but in shape. Acne is my main problem I fight on a daily basis. For me I always think Acne is a big drawdown...but really nothing is 100% limiting. Highlight your good features...eyes, hair, clothing style etc and woman will look beyond your flaws (if not, f**ck em! ha)

It's more self-confidence...And to boost that, go hit up the gym to gain muscle/burn fat. If you're like me with acne issues, work on hygiene to improve that condition.

A friend of mine is dating a fat chubby teddy bear, because he's an overall good guy to everyone and has that positive "vibe" always around him.

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not as much. look at the success of the fat guy from season one of the pua series

it matters more for women

My best friend is fat and hes a damn good pua.

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As far as I have experienced i have felt it is a issue, but more personaly.

So if you have the disadvantage as being fat you really need to get all other things straight so have all Games skills G4GO if not i think it is much harder to get the girls attention/specialy you want them to be attracted to you as a fat guy.

I have no experience on skinny guys.

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Do you guys mind if I put some pics with me on this post ( i'm going out tomorrow ) and be as critic as you can with them( it works for me best like this) so I can have a streight idee of what to get improving first.

As it comes to gym workout I think I can help a little most guys that get stuck at a point with their development. ( Used to wark at a pretty big gym in Galati my home town ). If you want I can make a post (don't know the section it should be in , just scrached the surface of this forum) with how to lose fat heathy rather than fast and with big problems in the long run. ( I cand show you what I mean, did that regret all to musch doing so.)

No problems man. Show us the goods.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Like I said I want you to comment on this pics, I'm sorry I don't have to many, a kind of forgot:) sorry http://img269.imageshack.us/i/jd802151.jpg/ http://img401.imageshack.us/i/jd802148.jpg/

My spontaneous reaction is that you could do something about your hair. Like a lot of spray and make like spikes or something. Go wild like sonic the hedgehog. You could get some shades too if you wanna look sharp. Why not go for some acessories, like a necklace or something, like bigger than the one you got, a symbol maybe.

I like the open shirt style, cool. But the shirt is too common, get yourself a new one thats a bit more unusual. Also the pants are good but could be a bit more interesting. They are casual, in your case I would go for exceptional instead, stylish though, we dont want to just go crazy but do it with style.

Your weight is not a big issue! I thought you would be like Jabba the Hutt but your weight will not get in the way.
And you need to practice that confident smile of yours, that would change a lot!

Ezo

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

thakns for the advice, about the necklace it's a gift from my parrents, I don't think I wanna get rid of it, it means a lot, about the shirt, definitly I'll do, the pants to. Smilling is something new to me, I used to think it was not for me and I keep trying to improve it. I didn't think I would get this form this post, ye my confidance just went up again. You guys are awsome.

Dont get rid of anything that makes you feel good.
Your necklace is cool! Keep stuff that makes you feel comfortable and happy! Thats attractive.

I know smiling is difficult but it is very useful! It doesnt matter if you look stupid when you are smiling, the signal you send out is more important, in the end your overall attraction will go up...

I know you can do it!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

hey guys I aproach girls now:D not with very much succes but still, I love the aa:D:)), anyway does anyone here now of someone that's from romania or galati maybe, I'd really like to know a real PUA and and maybe be friends with, not just going sargin or anything.
You know how hard it is at the begining, it would be nice to have someone that went through that and speak to him in general at least

I've mentioned this before, but I always encourage long pants especially for shorter or rounder individuals. Long pants give the illusion of height and slenderness since the eye only see's one continuious line from the waist down. Also dark colors are slimming colors so a nice pair of dark colored jeans might be just what you need. Kudos to you on having the courage to post your picture up.

~Antithesis

thanks man I kind of already wear them but this period of year here in Romania at least it's pure suicide to wear long pants, it's almost 32 degrees Celsius and summer hasn't even started. I wear long pants anly when the sun sets down, couse if you wear them during day time you will swet like a dog and I don't think its to attractive to smell like that. I actually decided to take the smaller of two bads. What should you do in my case?