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What I do want to know though is, say if you used the opener where you asked, the question about wheather or not they want a boyfriend who's a good cook or a good massager, what would happen if they happened to mention their boyfriends? What could be done then? Better yet, is it possible that they won't mention they have boyfriends?
You don't have to say "boyfriend". You could ask, "What's more attractive, a guy who can blah blah blah or a guy who can blah blah blah?"
If a girl mentions her boyfriend, just keep plowing ahead like she never said it or flip the script on her.
Tell her, "You and your boyfriend sound perfect for each other. I bet you're very happy."
That'll teach her to bring up other dudes while in your presence.