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kino is my sticking point. i was laying with this girl on a bed while a bunch of people were downstairs and we were just there talkin. problem is there was no sexual tension. i didnt know how to make any physical contact with her though without seeming really awkward or obvious. then later we were walkin around town and i didnt do anything again because i didnt know what to do there either. i know shes into me though because she gives me way to many IOIs. she has a boyfrend so i dont think she wants to be easy. any ideas on what i could have done to improve that night?
Whisper something in her ear (is that someone standing outside the door) or (can i tell you something - make up embarrasing story, what do you think i should do)
Kick her legs by accident and then tell her off.
Rest your legs on hers.
Or ideally if you can get face to face, maybe run an ESP routine like guessing numbers and say, ok you have to stare in to my eyes it makes it work better. get your heads really close, laugh to take the edge off and maybe say ok ok just trust me. You could grab a hand now, or both and slow it down. Talk slowly, dont smile, stare in to her eyes. when you finish keep your head where it is and keep holding her hands and say. your turn...
Maybe ask her what is the best way to get to know someone? What do you think makes 2 people really close.
You just gotta build that tension,
good luck