I have never kissed a girl I dont even know how to kiss. Whats the best way to get a first kiss and overcome your fear of kissing?

My first kiss was horrible. I watched too many movies and went for the super huge tongue down the throat sloppy shit, almost dislocated my jaw.

My advice, only open your mouth as wide as your pinky finger and, instead of sticking your tongue out like a snake, aim for her top or bottom lip. It's a more sensual kiss then you can follow her lead or step it up from there.

as for overcoming your fear...I asked a girl to be my gf and didn't kiss her for a couple weeks. eventually i psyched myself up for it and just did it, after the first one i haven't found it difficult since. I heard a saying something like "Do the thing and you will get the power, most people think you need to get the power and then you can do the thing. That is not the way life works".

Basically don't think just do it.

its very easy, dont take it to seriously. Just do it, after about 3 seconds of kissing, youll be like, "oh i see, that wasnt hard at all i cant believe i made a post about that hahahha". and to get the kiss, if u have a car, get a date, take her out to a movie or something, walk her to the door, and say "i want to kiss you". not can i kiss you, and dont go for the awkward lean in and hope she kisses you back. You wont be able to tell until you get experience with body language. Also, open your lips up about a centimeter and just press your lips against hers SLOW NO TONGUE. One of your lips just above one of hers.

Once you get experience, youll just know. Also, KINO, hold her hand , get her to touch you. whisper in her ear. good luck

Do you have a female friend who would do you a favour and show you the ropes?

CHEAYH!

and then see if she wants to take it further still....

The first time i really kissed a girl i remember that it started out with some little quick pecks in a row then quickly and naturally moved onto some pretty intense tongue and groping. Sadly we were in public so it couldnt escilate...

However, back to the actual point... Nature really just kinda took over its like eating i kinda just knew what to do....dont think about it dude, just roll with it.

I also just read in another forum about a first kiss:

Begin to tell her a story ( make sure its a great one too!) and right before you get to the climax of the story look her dead in the eyes and say
'' come here you''
pull her in( but dont be too forceful about it) and kiss her slowly and passonately.
Then finish your story like nothing happened...

No. Kissing is easy.

When the mood is good, close eyes, touch lips with lips and enjoy slowly. Almost immediately the girl is just going to be lip-raping you like you're some kind of a kiss-toy. That is all.

No movies. No rules. No trying to stick a tongue into a throat.

Stick to this and you're good. And don't stress because if you do it poorly you're going to be considered normal and I don't think it's going to "ruin" anything.