Hi Guys,

I haven't really used facebook my entire high school and college years. I'm now just starting to go out and meet girls. I'm a natural and usually close numbers very well day/night game. I'd like to say I'm really good at reading body language and can tell most of these girls were super interested in me. However, lately I've been meeting these girls that also want to exchange facebooks and shit. So I add them then it seems their interest get much lower cause I don't have an "active" facebook. Is facebook lowering my image? I've begun taking a camera with me everywhere to take pics with everyone lol.

i dont use facebook at all it wont damage your value not having one so not having a facebook isnt whats destroying your image

he clearly says he "adds" them so he has a facebook. the answer is yes.

for example, if you have a decent amount of friends on facebook say somewhere between 50-300 and NO ONE is saying anything to you , of course it looks bad.

the going out and taking pics with everyone thing is cool if the people your taking pics with have facebook also and you can tag them in the albums. If your just taking pics with randoms, it looks to other people like your trying hard to get pics on facebook.

i'd say , for gaming purposes, either delete your facebook and start attempting f-closes and or #-closes. But your best option would be to just start using it alot , as if youve decided hey facebook can be fun, start posting jokes and shit on your status, talking ot people on facebook chat/walls etc etc

facebook shows social proof in a big way, just spend an hour or 2 finding friends and then just update ur status and comment on other ppls dailyish - it just gives good social proof. if they see u have few friends they think its because there is something wrong with u. i wouldnt reccommend deleting ur fb as if girls are demanding it as social proof not having it will still make u look bad

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confucious says: man who goes to bed with each bum, wakes up with smelly finger - be true to yourself consciously and save your unconscious the trouble

Not having a Facebook has never worked against me. The problem is these girls just want to add you on Facebook. Lets get real, Facebook is good for keeping in touch with family and friends that aren't in town and pretending you have a big social network. You should be getting phone numbers. If a girl is willing to add you on Facebook, but won't give you her number, what does that tell you buddy?