So now that I've been delving into the pua lifestyle within the past month I've decided to introduce some of my friends to it. One of my boys has AA so bad its really kind of sad. So I thought of a mission to give him and maybe it'll work for anyone else that has just socially crippling AA.

So of course you'll have to go where numerous HBs go or congregate and ONLY use this on the HBs you are attracted to. NO grandmas, NO dudes, NO one that you know!

Walk up to her (from the side of course to not be creepy) and have her stop.

You:"Could you do me a favor?" or "I need you to do a favor for me."
HB: Ummm....yeah/I guess/No
You: Can you you reject me?

That's it. No small talk, no introduction, the first things you say are those two lines.

My rational behind this is three fold.

1. Approach shouldn't be too difficult because you're wanting and expecting to get the worst case scenario. You WANT to be blown out to experience it and learn how to deal with it.

2. If her answer for "I need you to do a favor for me." is "No." Congratulations, you've just got what you wanted with out even asking for it.

3. It could possibly be very intriguing for the HB and could have her engage into conversation because of it. i.e.

HB: What?/Why?/No, I'm too nice/puzzled stare..blah,blah,blah
You: Think of it as a social experiment. Look, I'm sure you're approached 3, MAYBE 4 times a day. (slight neg) I'm just curious to see how some women dismiss those approaches.

From there she'll give you what you want, the blow out, or her interest is sparked and you can practice interaction skills now that the set is open.
I realize some may argue that its not a true approach because you're ASKING her to blow you out but the exercise is more about becoming comfortable with rejection and how to recover from it as well as psychologically getting over talking to HBs by getting what you ask for from them. (psychologically in that its an alpha move)

So what do you guys think? Questions, comments, concerns, criticisms? All is appreciated. BTW, this has not been field tested yet! This is still theory only.


Mods, wasn't sure if this should go into "Openers" or the "AA" forums.

Even before getting introduced to PUA. I used to play a game with a friend of my.

We would walk in the park trying to score more rejections. Just by saying "Hi how you doin ?"

At the end the one with more rejections would win.

It totally changes the way you approach since you are already aiming for the rejection. They wen girls answered it would be cool as well.

It's a cool game for someone who's not used to approach people in the street.

The same thing happens when you actually need directions and happens that the person you ask is a HB, you don't get the feeling you're gonna be rejected, and all goes smoothly.


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pedrolive

I like this it's a sound opener

+1 to this idea.

The girl will be thinking ´wut?´ and be intrigued and you can face your demon so to speak.

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