It was my first time contacting her so I probablly should have phoned rather then texted,but anyways here's what happened It started out okay until she told me she was crying a lot today because of an incident at work. We talked about it a little bit but i wanted to change the subject since it was a depressing conversation, so shes still talking about how she was crying then i decide to say " so are we gonna hang out on friday" then she doesnt respond. So i guess she must think im a jerk, but was it really that bad? I think Im gonna text her back in a day or two and start out by saying "so are you felling better today" do you guys think I can recover from this?

Can't hurt to try

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You're turning into the inner Wuss. The "are we hanging out" was a good idea, kept her from getting too comfortable and friend-zoning you. But I mean, for "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU JUST SAID THAT" moments, just KEEP YOUR COOL. Don't apologize, don't kiss up, etc. Make it clear that's what you want, and that's what you're going for.

You just can't give her the control. Don't text her saying "are you feeling better", text her saying "so are you that cranky all the time, or are you feeling better today?"

Similarly, don't ask "are we hanging out?". SAY "we should hang out friday" or "should I still let you hang out with me Friday?" with a little laugh.

Hey man, you have got to realize that just because you listened to her problem doesn't make you the only person that she wants to hang out with.. ON A FRIDAY. You've SPAM your friday night too soon man, make girls earn your fridays and saturdays.

This girl sounds like a tuesday afternoon girl.

Probably telling her she had a rough time and you'll take her out to forget about her woes would have made you seem like you cared about the problem and given you a way to avoid her negative feelings, "Hey, we're here to have fun, lets save that for when we go out to feel miserable".