Hey guys,

i'm a newbie to this site, but I've recently been having some problems with this girl and you guys seem like the best people to ask for advice. So i'm in highschool and this girl was in my gym class, and we hit it off pretty fast. i asked her to prom, and we hooked up a few times all within a few weeks, and then we decided we would be exclusive ( I was on the spot, bad decision). Anyways, she was really into it, hooking up, calling me, texting me, and i got into it to, but recently she's been quiet and it seems everythings fading away. so i decided it would be best if we were no longer exclusive, in hopes of rebuilding the lost attraction, and we're still going to prom together. Now she's on the fence about going to "after prom". Any advice on getting her to come (i know that sounds needy, but you get what i'm saying), and other advice for the situation in general.

Thanks,
Wiz

show some disinterest to get her attraction back stop texting and calling as much dont hang out as much stuff like that hang out with other girls build a jelously plot this is great tool for getting back lost attraction girls get real jelous when the guy there sleeping or have been with is around other women there competive nature kicks in let her know other hot interested women are in your life once you get her attraction back and get her hooked again she should go to after prom with you no probs

if she trys to make you jelous in return dont let her phase you stay unaffected by her shes not the highlight of your life shes just a bonus

You want to be keeping it as interesting as possible. Calls and texts get boring after a while. Slow it down calls and texts don't convert into love.

You don't want her to feel like she is the only thing in your life but rather she is a part of your life.

Sometimes you gotta ignore texts for a while.

Ok to start up the spark take her somewhere really interesting and then you will have a clean slate and a fresh start so you can work your game.


Take care.

That's because it IS needy. And thats probably whats driving her away in the first place. You're going to prom dude! I'm sure there's gonna be tons of other girls there. Plus you have the advantage of having some pua knowledge. Go to the prom and have tons of fun with others girls. Doesn't have to be anything sexual. Just to show her that she doesn't control you and you can have fun without her. Ask her at the end of the dance if she's coming to the after party or not in a normal, nonchalant attitude. If she she says yes then great. If she says no then bring her home and go anyway.

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