Hey,

I've met a girl who is from a conservative culture and we've been on 2 fantastic dates(5.5 hours), lots of kino on our last "date". Anyhow, I've got her to invest around a sum which is worth 3 meals on me...

Previously we had a conversation on kissing and I told her that I kissed my last gf before we dated and this girl said that she wouldn't like if someone kissed her before a relationship. However, I would like to kiss her on her forehead on the next date to act as a major IOI maybe to get a relationship going (now I don't act that interested, other than as a friend) . She seems quite interested in me and whenever I touch her playfully she accepts it..

So should I still go ahead with it? I am thinking of telling her that I have a gift for her at the beginning of the date, then I'll tell her to remind me later. Halfway through, I shall bring it up, ask her to close her eyes, take out her hands, put her earrings on them(to prevent her from slapping me if things go wrong), then kiss her on her forehead...

That's my plan so far. Any comments?

The Apostle:

Kissing on the forehead, in my opinion, is a great way to establish yourself "above" a girl (making you seem more "worldly" or experienced).

I personally don't think your idea is very good. First, if a girl is going to smack you, she'll smack you regardless of whether you put something in her hands. Second, I don't see kissing someone on the forehead as grounds for smacking you. I don't really understand if the "gift" is the forehead kiss or a new pair of earrings. If it is earrings, I highly advise against this, since, as they say in mainstream rap "it ain't trickin if you got it" (meaning that it's okay to spend money on a girl and give her nice presents if you're sleeping with her). However, it is "trickin" if you aren't sleeping with her (or at least kissing).

Don't make a big deal about the forehead kiss, just at some point in the evening, find a reason to say that she's "so cute" and just grab the sides of her head and kiss her on the forehead. If you act like it's a natural thing and not a big deal (which is true), then she most likely won't make a big deal about it.

However, I do strongly advise you to try to escalate this; at this point you should at least be kissing her if you want this to not be platonic.

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theyreredhot

Thank you for your advice.

I will kino escalate quite a lot prior to this (perhaps bring her ice-skating, hiking or engage her in some sporting activities), I won't let it go platonic however shouldn't I wait for another 1.5 hours given that I have already had 5.5 hours with her?

I would like to use the forehead kiss to slowly move into a relationship (not immediately but soon after that), so I was thinking of acting like it was serious. So she knows of my intentions. What are the benefits of not acting serious, from the female perspective?

dude u dont need to wait a prescribed amount of time before kissing sum1. u can kiss close in the first 10 mins and the interaction is still gonna go well. just act like whatever u r doing is natural (shouldnt be a problem - its not like she hasnt kissed a guy before) and just add pauses to your conversation whilst making good eye contact as it builds the sexual tension and slowly and smoothly get closer to her and close. good luck

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confucious says: man who goes to bed with each bum, wakes up with smelly finger - be true to yourself consciously and save your unconscious the trouble

Well spoken. The seven hour stuff is from the MM. Good material but with natural game you can blow that out the window and go for it anytime.