I've been reviewing Swinggcat's material and the whole prizability stuff is gold. I realized every time I got the girl I had prizability even if I wasn't aware of it.

And one way of doing this is using push-pull.

I recently even tried it online and it works:

Context:
Girl puts on MSN that her soccer team won the game.

Me:
(Fluff talk)
...
You must be drinkin' now because of the game, right? Cheers! (put her in a happy state)
blablabla

Girl:
Yeah I'm sooo happyyy. I love this team... blablabla

Me:
Yeah... that's a great team! (compliment = pull)

Girl:
Yeaahhhhhh!!!
*high five*

... some silence ...

Me:
BTW... I'm out.
Good night.
Kiss
(push)

Girl:
Why???

Me is offline.


If you take PU gurus advice of leaving her in a high note and ending the interaction yourself first, that's a subtle form of push-pull.

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"Their compliance is,
'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

you remind me of Apple....taking old shit and acting like its new.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Lollers.

I like this post.

The only book/method I ever come back to is Swinggcat's. I haven't read it in maybe six months though I'm sure I'll go over it at some point in the future again.

lol

thank you thank you! I'll be here all week!

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

I feel hated and discriminated.



I could've sworn I posted in this thread before.

those posts were moved to the miscellaneous section.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

LOL

This is what classes as push pull these days?

Shiiiiiii-

If this is sposed to be an amazing interaction, or even 'good', the state of things have really dropped.




No offence to you, but this isn't really anything at all. If this is your first venture into pushing and pulling, then well done for chosing this route. Push pull makes the foundation of my game. Playful push-pull with escalation. But I really don't see what value this post brings...



I have a lot I could share, actual examples of brilliant push-pull, it's just a shame I'm not happy to do so in such a public forum.


I should write a post on it sometime...


Just small bit of advice, if you wanna get good at push pull, learn how to banter, become sickkkk with banter, then all it requires is to add in some qualifcation here and there, while always escalating. And it's pretty much over.


Love
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~Finesse

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Munroe: "I kinoed the hell out of that goat"
Jav: "bashing chodes 24/7 ftw"
Slywalker: "Neg the bagel"
Slywalker: "I had a 1yr old GF when I was 19"
SS_Trunks:I asked her for an extra pen, confidently....

Well lets hear about it then, eh? You claim to have push-pull/escalation down to an art, so, Picasso... where is your painting?

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Manipulation is such a strong word... I prefer persuasion.

BUMP! Curiuos to know something from Finesse